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How long were you together before getting Engaged?

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  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    How long were we together before we got engaged? Not long enough in hindsight. Should have listened to my mother when she suggested
    7 years :D
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • Met December 2004
    Engaged April 2008
    Married June 2009
    2010 - Goals

    1. on the long road to hopefully adopting a child - Home Visit 3 Feb 2010

    2. Planning to clear my credit card debt.

    3. lose weight.


  • tru
    tru Posts: 9,138 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic
    Met December 1988 (both aged 17)
    Engaged March 1989 (on my 18th)
    Married December 1989
    Baby born April 1990 - lol
    Bulletproof
  • Met August 2003 (my car was stolen from his shops car park)
    Son born 2004 :o
    Engaged December 2005 (Christmas Eve)
    Married June 2006
  • bylromarha
    bylromarha Posts: 10,085 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Met Oct 1995, got together Nov 1997, got engaged Feb 1998, married June 1999. Still happily married 10 years on.

    Quickest couple we know is going out to wed in 4 months. Still very happy 6 years on.
    Who made hogs and dogs and frogs?
  • Got together October 2nd 2007... talked about moving in togethr about a week or so after, talked about future, wedding and children about a week after that.

    Started saving to move out November 2007-hoped to move out June 2008 but then my parents offered us the house I grew up in to rent (they had bought a new house to do up and move into and as soon as that was done out family home would have been on the open market to rent)

    Had to wait until Jan 2009 for OH to move in once parents had moved (building work took longer than expected)

    OH had already proposed Dec 1st 2008 and we will have the wedding on our 3rd anniversary 2/10/2010 :D
  • Chuzzle
    Chuzzle Posts: 625 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Met Jan 1992
    First official date Valentines day 1992
    Moved in July 1992
    Had DS1 August 1993 :o
    Married July 1995
    Still together....just :D
    Banana Lovers
    Buy your bananas in bunches of 5 on Sunday. Then arrange them in order of ripeness and write a day of the week on each banana in felt pen, Monday on the ripest, Friday on the greenest to save time making those decisions on a hectic weekday morning
  • Ex H

    Met - June 05
    Engaged - December 05
    Married - August 06
    Seperated - September 08
    Divorced - as soon as bleeding possible

    it was fast, and unfortunately the man i dated, the man i married and the man i seperated from are 3 different people, but the lessons i learnt are invaluable and each decision i made was 100% right at the time and despite the pain i have no regrets :)

    Met OH through a friend and started speaking on tinternet - 2nd feb 09
    Met in person - 22nd feb 09
    Texted, emailed, called etc constantly
    Officially dating 12th July 09

    Happy to say all is going swimmingly and although im very commited to him and vice versa we have discussed living together - in 2011 (due to my work commitments) unless we win the lottery in the mean time :D

    oh, and we have said babies in the next 3 - 5 years (because of our ages) so im guessing marriage sometime before that lol
  • Teenie_D
    Teenie_D Posts: 2,270 Forumite
    PPI Party Pooper
    Known each other for years but.....

    Started dating Feb 2003
    Moved in together June 2003
    Engaged Dec 2003
    Married Sept 2004
    Just celebrated our 5th anniversary last friday.
    Had 1st baby August 2007
    "That's no reason to cry. One cries because one is sad. For example, I cry because others are stupid, and that makes me sad."
  • ~Loz~
    ~Loz~ Posts: 57 Forumite
    Me and my OH have been together nearly 8 years and we are not engaged. Over the years we have said we don't want to get married as we are happy the way we are, partly to shut the family up to be honest!

    The past few months i have changed my mind on the issue, and now my OH is working away in another country i'm thinking of asking him.

    Never thought i would be saying that but having been apart for the last few weeks has made me realise how much i love him and want to be with him. Don't get me wrong i knew that anyway but as the saying goes ' you don't know what you have got until its gone'!!

    I wonder what he will say to 'miss, i don't want to get married ever' when she proposes!! If it happens it will be a long engagement, rushing the marriage wouldn't suit us..
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