Advice needed please

zippychick

red_devil wrote: »

I dont know I wasnt there. You asked for advice you got answers! Its impossible for anyone to know they werent there!
Family problems are really boring to be honest.
Most people have them in some way and on forums you only get to hear one side!

red_devil wrote: »

must have been bored!

serioulsy I wouldnt bore anyone I didnt know with my family problems. I try and solve them myself.;) or get on with my life and try not to worry about them.

red_devil wrote: »

They shouldnt get your back up then should they when they dont hear what they want to hear and make comments?

They should feel lucky anyone has taken the time to be interested!

Complete and utter waste of time when you only hear one side!

How can you give advice?

red_devil wrote: »

i cant see where I have posted family problems we have loads but sorry I wouldnt bore anyone and I have the sense to know that people would only be hearing one side aswell?

How come people cannot deal with their families anymore on their own and have to ask strangers?

red_devil wrote: »

Yes i know i posted that thanks. It was more of a what to do people do, rather than a drawn out thing about a certain member of the family not pleasing the other which needed alot of explaining and you needed to hear the two sides!

I can assure you i will never post about individual members of the family etc zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

Yawn.
Got any good jokes bit more entertaining isnt it than trying to be an unpaid agony aunt over the pc and only getting the one side.

Pls be nice to all MoneySavers. There's no such thing as a stupid question, and even if you disagree courtesy helps.;)

funky_snow

To the OP:
Just a little thing to add if you are having a chat with your son... There are lots of websites with 'questions to ask before you marry' - just do a google search...
If you can gently suggest that your son looks at some - because these are the things that in the 'rush' of this new relationship he may not have considered.
At least they will be a good starting point for him to maybe have an objective look at his relationship and make appropriate plans if the quick wedding and kids is still what he wants to do.
On the other hand - it could be a wake up call!!!!

karren

galvanizersbaby wrote: »

red_devil wrote: »

EslaDee wrote: »

god how boring are you going on about your sons gf on a forum? wonder what she thought of you?

It really annoys me when people ask for opinions then question it all if its not what they want to hear?

Bet she hasnt gone on a forum sounding off about you! whose gives a toss about your problem anyway we all have our own![/QUOTE]

:rotfl:to be fair Red Devil - considering some of your recent threads - some may say they find your problems/issues a little on the dull side - perhaps you mean wouldn't consciously bore people?!

Be fair to the poster, she was asking for advise not abuse, if its riled you that much why on earth have you taken time to abuse her on here? I think you need to reflect and think of others before you post abuse, She has a problem and has asked how to manage it, It up to you what you think, but as the saying goes, if you cant say anything nice, dont say anything!