** Tuesday 11th August Daily Chat**

bookseller1980

I've just had matzos and stilton for lunch.

redsquirrel80

Sammy, that is quite unfair of your SIL to put you in that position.. although I can understand why she would want to talk about it. Maybe speak to her again and tell her what a dilemma it's caused, maybe you could come up with some way to broach the subject together?

BeautyandtheBeast_3

Morning/afternoon all!!

The sun is shining i have my 3rd load of washing to go out and i hate the vacuum!!!!

answer me this question:

WHY oh why do men feel it necessary to leave diy jobs half done, leave their dirty trainers everywhere, leave wrappers everywhere and then say oh yes im a really tidy person - Can i not sue husband under trade descriptions act - he told me he was clean and tidy - well he isnt!!! AAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

rant over! TY xxx

sammy115

bank_of_slate wrote: »

God, this is an awful situation!

If you don't tell him how will he feel/react if he finds out that you knew?
Will he blame you if his Dad is no longer around?
...Linda xx

If he does I can argue my corner....his dad is not a well man, his quality of life would be so much better if he dropped the 40 fags and bottle of whisky every other day, but since he retired he has been bored...he can't do what he used to do anymore and its makes him angry and frustrated....he thinks he has nothing to live for....chronically depressed I think but would never do anything about it. An old docker from the terraces of Liverpool....a mans man....

But has been like a father to me...

redsquirrel80

Lenza_Quidditch wrote: »

Sammy - (gulp) I'm going through treatment for NHL now so if you want to PM me or talk on here please do - I'll help if I can. I haven't mentioned it cos I didn't want people to think it was an attention-seeking thing. I've lurked round MSE for ages but joined in chat because I really needed to erm, chat! About anything, :rotfl:Normal stuff. I'm not working and am really missing that at the moment...
For what it's worth, I would try and speak to him myself - dunno if it's possible for you to get him on his own?
x

Normal, here? Where?! :rotfl:Never think that you're attention seeking if you want to talk about it though Lenza, can't be easy xx

notanothergreyhair

k_bagpuss wrote: »

(I'm in the Village People!)

We will get on famously.


My page navigation has returned to normal/old style.

bookseller1980

And I've downgraded my phone package.

Bored now but have to stay in cos people have promised to phone me back.

spud30

Sammy, horrible situation to be put in but I think I'd be inclined to keep my gob shut hun. He obviously wants to deal with it his way, and at 80, I think he has that right.

Act a bit dumb, she never told you owt

Hugs Lenza. We're always here to keep you company and chat.

bookseller1980

It's gone back to normal now! Odd.

Lenza_Quidditch

sounds like they in laws aren't coping well with the news themselves - thing is FIL has been through it all before and knows how he did with treatment etc. so it's like bookie said above - he's made his choice and he's certainly old enough to make it...