20 week scan

Saint_Chris

Sorry i haven't been on for a few days, but it's been busy here.

Well we saw lots of people about my daughters situation, and we were rushed through with appointments to see all sorts of different surgeons really quick, and all were lovely.

But without going into the details to much on here, my daughter ended the pregnancy. (please don't think bad of her)

It wasn't an easy decission, believe me, but like the lady in the link posted above, there was little chance of survival and more complications than we had 1st thought.

He arrived on sunday evening, and the hospital were lovely, we got to see him as well.

We are just waiting for a service to be sorted out.

Many thanks for your wishes.

Becles

So sorry to hear that - RIP little one.

I don't think bad of your daughter. It's understandable that you didn't want the little lad to suffer and it was kinder to let him go peacefully than put him through a lot of pain and suffering which may not have helped him at all. She's been brave to have made that decision.

Thinking of you all xx

ginvzt

Sorry Saint_Chris. It is a difficult time for you all and my thoughts are with you.

I would not think bad of you or your daughter in this. I would have probably done the same... If I was that brave!!!!! Keep well and support each other - that what families are for!

alison6692

I am sorry to hear your news. How sad for all you. My heart goes out to you all that must of been the most hardest desicion to make.
Thinking you and your family xxx Love Alison x

jack*tigger

Thinking of you all at this difficult time.

Dinah93

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter, a horrible, terrible thing for anyone to have to go through.

dawnybabes

(((HUgs))) to you all. No-one sane could think bad of you, we all have to do what is right for ourselves.

Their by the grace of god go I and all that

kindofagilr

I am so sorry, RIP little one

I hope your daughter (and you and the rest of your family) are ok ((hugs))

Nikabella

I would never think badly of your daughter - it must have been the hardest decision in the world to make. No-one should judge a person's decision about something of that magnitude unless they are unfortunate enough to have even experienced a tenth of something so traumatic.

Your daughter may need a long time to grieve over this and I'm not sure if the hospital automatically offer counselling but it may be an idea to suggest this to her.

My thoughts are with you all.

A.x

tara747

Big hugs to you both, we are not here to judge and it must have been heartbreaking for her to make the decision.

T xoxoxoxo