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Alcohol self help thread II

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  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    Well done on staying strong AC, you are an incredible woman.

    Do you know why you feel low? Is there anything you can do to make things better?
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • ac
    ac Posts: 7,028 Forumite
    had enough corage to see the bank manager..

    he told me to go to CAB..... and tell OH

    tried phoning CAB they were closed.....

    i cant tell OH...... i want him to leave and havent got enough
    bottle ( excuse the pun) to tell him......

    but other than that im hunky doorey :D
    Heaven wont let me in & Hell's too scared i'd take over :kiss:
    Alcoholics do it till they pass out :o:D :;)
    THE MORE I NO THE LESS I UNDERSTAND :o

  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    ac wrote:
    had enough corage to see the bank manager..

    he told me to go to CAB..... and tell OH

    tried phoning CAB they were closed.....

    i cant tell OH...... i want him to leave and havent got enough
    bottle ( excuse the pun) to tell him......

    but other than that im hunky doorey :D

    Thats a very sad situation AC, hope you manage to get thru to the CAB tomorrow.
    Have you tried writing down exactly what you would say to OH? It might help if you know what you want to say?
    Keep strong x
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Al_Mac
    Al_Mac Posts: 5,519 Forumite
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    Have you tried writing down exactly what you would say to OH? It might help if you know what you want to say?

    Ditto that:cool: You're doing really, really, really well, you know what you want, sobriety, and you're doing it:T Top marks hun:kisses3:

    If you want a chat, there's people around.

    Apart from me who seems to have been working since Saturday night:eek: Mrs Mac asked who I was when I game in tonight, 9:30. She saw me at 7:30 this morning:rolleyes:
  • ac
    ac Posts: 7,028 Forumite
    i had to leave the house for a short while last night

    OH came in with a lirte of voddy...

    i started to twitch alot...due to emotions and new i had
    to get away else i would of fell big time..

    went me mums told her about OH betrayal.....

    went home to tell him it was over......

    he wouldnt have any of it......
    pleade pleaded and pleaded with me......

    he said there was an underlining problem and wanted to no wot it was...

    so i blerted the truth out.....

    cant believe ive told him how much ive mesed up finanially & alot of it is down to my alcoholism..............

    we are going to bite the bullet on the finianial side of things tomorrow
    and were the marriage is concerned we're going to try again :rolleyes:
    Heaven wont let me in & Hell's too scared i'd take over :kiss:
    Alcoholics do it till they pass out :o:D :;)
    THE MORE I NO THE LESS I UNDERSTAND :o

  • Al_Mac
    Al_Mac Posts: 5,519 Forumite
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    Well done ac, remember though you come first;)

    Did you discuss his intake?
  • Take care ac.
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    Hit rock bottom again last night.
    I am an alcoholic :(
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • brodev
    brodev Posts: 1,018 Forumite
    Hit rock bottom again last night.
    I am an alcoholic :(
    This may sound like a daft thing to say but CONGRATULATIONS.
    It is bad enough to be an alcoholic , but to be one and not to admit it is much worse. When you admit it to yourself you can start to get well again. so I repeat CONGRATULATIONS.
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  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    brodev wrote:
    This may sound like a daft thing to say but CONGRATULATIONS.
    It is bad enough to be an alcoholic , but to be one and not to admit it is much worse. When you admit it to yourself you can start to get well again. so I repeat CONGRATULATIONS.

    Now I've gotta work out what to do :-/
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
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