MSE Parents Club Part 4

Sami_Bee

carlamagee wrote: »

thanks everyone for sharing.....my bleeding is only spotting at the minute, and very few n far between (only gave birth a week ago - modwive out today and said uterus is back where it should be -- so is this normal!??) but i wouldnt want to do anything and then have a sudden gush!!!!???

also - sami!! how on earth have u abstained since june!!!!!! :eek: you must have some willpower!!

since june?? pah! I haven't had for about 9months!! Its been so long I've forgotten how to do it :rotfl:
we waited 4mths after Chris, it was painful for me so we didn't actually 'finish' and didn't try again for a further 2mths.
Hubby is currently like a dog on heat trying to hump my leg at every opportunity :rotfl:

searching_me

sami i couldnt do that i mean philips sex drive is much more then that but dont you get those moment where you have to have them there and then and nothing is getting in your way x

money_maker_3

it was about 6 months for us after Jas, and even then once a monthmax as he was still very sore and sick
This time, I waited till bleeding stopped and in the last week have managed 3 times But considering that was since I was 9 weeks pregnant I needed it !!

searching_me

im starting to think im sex crazed coz even if philip said no it still wouldnt stop me ... although philip never ever says no :rotfl: x

elle_gee

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Sami_Bee

searching_me wrote: »

sami i couldnt do that i mean philips sex drive is much more then that but dont you get those moment where you have to have them there and then and nothing is getting in your way x

nope

searching_me wrote: »

im starting to think im sex crazed coz even if philip said no it still wouldnt stop me ... although philip never ever says no :rotfl: x

you are

searching_me

... see the idea of not having those "i have to have you now" moment is a little odd its just ive never not had them i mean i dont have them all the time but sometimes i just look over at philip and tingle and think .. hmmmm x

elle_gee

Oh, I knew there was something else.. from Ikea, I got more muslins! Softness report, just for MFD, coming up in the morning once they're dry

weezl74

elle_gee wrote: »

I'm very lucky that I'm the decision-maker's assistant so I've managed to persuade her to pay up half my holiday entitlement next month instead of having to wait for it to be worked out when I go back. Our holiday year runs 1 April to 31 March and I only used one day's holiday between 1 April and 17 May this year, so have 24 plus BHs left

so, are you having it as pay instead of rolling the leave on til next year?

Elle, I have a question you might be able to help with....

Keeping in touch days, do I get paid a normal day's wage plus my SMP or does it get deducted from my SMP, in which case I should do all of them in the UNPAID part of my maternity leave?

3onitsway wrote: »

I'd go to the hairdressers wanting to look like the girl from T'pau or one of Bananarama..................and come out looking like my Nana! :mad:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

oh 3, that's brilliant!

cazscoob

my internet went off last night and i had to go a whole night bored lol!!! have never been so excited to get up and see it was back on lol!

am meant to be getting ready but was just checking my msgs, my gran had another heart attack yesterday, this is her 10th but she will not change her lifestyle so in a way it getting ridiculous? (she drinks and smokes a lot!)
right im off so dont chat too much or ill never keep up!
oh before i forget we have an anniversary party tom night and it a case of bring a plate of food and a bottle, what would you bring?