MSE Parents Club Part 4

searching_me

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

What a bloody shame what reason is there for anybody to be negative - we are all just trying our best to raise our kids.

People make me so angry sometimes...

honestly it was like being at school one lass didnt like me and so they all didnt ... this always happens... i dont get why some girls take an instant dislike to me its happened so many times i lost count ... one day i left and i just started crying coz i just couldnt take it anymore so philip told me to stop going x

scruffy96uk

Tia thats great that you are defo getting home. Yes it is normal El was a really quick feeder, sometimes only 20 mins then would sleep for 3 hours+

tiamai_d

cheers tara. She does have varying feed legnths, and she is getting plenty. I just dont have anything better to do than worry about nothing. and the midwife team is a bit crap tonight. I've to wake her every 3 hours anyay, roll on 11pm, I get cuddles.

scruffy96uk

SM Don't you have someone you could take with you even if they don't have a LO just for moral support to start with. Swimming is great, I've taken El from 6 months and our lessons start again next monday.

searching_me

scruffy ... short nope ... even shorter .. no ... no one i know will go with me apart from philip and the kids i have a friend but shes far to self aware and complains shes to fat i feel the same way but i need to get out and do something 5 days a week in the house min is getting boring ... im meeting my work friend for lunch on monday and im looking forward to it as it gives me something different to do x

Sami_Bee

Tia I 2nd or 3rd that, Ed was feeding anything from 5 mins to 50
Does she feed ok when you wake her? Chris didn't take kindly to being woken to feed but ed doesn't mind (he is a greedy lil chubster LOL)

tiamai_d

Its so different feeding her compared to the boys, so much easier. A lot easier than I thought it would be. Just clicked with her, the boys ould be there for 2 hours most times, no wonder I gave up.

Sami, I love those boots, might get them for christopher when he needs new ones.

Searching, the toddler group in my village was great when I had DS1, but cliquey when I had DS2. All older mums on first babies who were snooty cows and thought they knew it all. Plus they used to stare at him because he wasnt walking. Only went a few times.

scruffy96uk

Ok I must get packaging tomorow all my ebay stuff finishes!!

tiamai_d

Sami, once you get her wakened she is happy to feed, its just the waking her thats difficult. I plan on getting her to stuff her face and let her wake me during the night.

but shes so damn cute lying there!

tarajayne

Strange, I couldn't post for a while!

Hope everyones had a good day, haven't had time to go right back, sorry.
We went to the beach which was trickier with Maddy but nice to get out. Ben's off to Birmingham tomorrow for his birthday present, Walking with Dinosaurs show, OH is taking him and I so wish i was going! :rolleyes:

Thanks for nappy tip Mrs M, just done an online shop so will log in again in the morn to have a look. I trid to look at shoes Sami but link didn't work for me.