MSE Parents Club Part 4

tiamai_d

MrsTine wrote: »

Tia - keep them cards safe! It's near impossible to get the R4s anymore - apparently Nintendo have started going legal on distributors because some people use them to illegally rip games on to! (Noooooo never!!!! :eek: Who'd DO such a thing!!!) :whistle:

Mine are only used for uhm... music... and pictures... :rolleyes:

[rant alert]

My house is minging and it is seriously getting me down. DH says I've not to do anything but then he doesn't do anything except work. He is away out today till 4pm, then is back out at 6pm to return that gaming chair and help move a hut so I won't see him till god knows when. Then he is on back shift (leaves at 2pm, home at midnight). Monday and tuesday mornings we are at day care so I can get steroids, so he won't do anythying then. Wednsday morning he will say 'oh I'll do it when your in hospital' and course Thursday it's too late and I'm !!!!ed off! The kids room is one of those pictures you see in neglect cases! The cupboard under the stairs is a mess too, I can' bend down to get all the shoes and bags and jackets and bloody crisps! There is junk everywhere! The kids won't tidy up, I'm not suposed to and DH is always out! And it's just going to get worse! There is a pile of stuff to go in his hut, it's getting chucked in teh garden and he will have to move it! HA!!!

My_Fathers_Daughter

MrsM

Call the national breastfeeding helpline

*NEW* National Breastfeeding Helpline 0300 100 0212
(stolen from krystals sig)

You may think that there is little they can do over the phone but I am informed that they are brilliant.



(((HUGS)))


Edit - they will help you to stop as well as discussing your problems.

tiamai_d

Mrs.Moc, call GP on call and get something now! Hope you feel better son you have had more than your fair share of crappyness!

Sami_Bee

MrsM plese don't give up completely. I can't imagine how bad you are feeling but if you have mastitis feeding is the best thing for stopping it getting worse (along with anti b's from the GP) the fever could have been caused by your womb infection too.

BIG HUGS to you, maybe try having a relaxing bath and then a cold compress on your boobs xxx

Mrs_Moc

Thanks for the advice

Im in so much pain right now with it. I might phone the number later, if I phone now, I know i'll start crying and saying why me!!!

money_maker_3

if you phone doc on call and get some anti biotics and or painkillers, it might help calm you down enough to be able to phone them later

Becles

elle_gee wrote: »

Do babies progress more by spending time with older babies?

Yes and no! Joshua was 2 when James was born, and James did all the mobility skills really early as he was desperate to follow his brother around. However Joshua spoke for him, so James never really said anything until he was 3 and Joshua went to full time school.

*Hugs* Mrs M. I would go and get checked out today if you can. Hope you feel better soon xx

My Mam phoned this morning from the caravan. Apparantly Charlotte woke up at 4am this morning and was singing "baa baa black sheep" at the top of her voice :rotfl: Mam had to go and tell her to shut up and go back to sleep.

They're coming going for a picnic lunch, then coming back here at tea time. As she's not here and the weather is nice, I think I'll take Bob on another long walk this afternoon. He'll not complain!

Hubby is cooking a leg of lamb with a mustard glaze and it smells fabulous. I wish it was tea time already

Mrs_Moc

money_maker wrote: »

if you phone doc on call and get some anti biotics and or painkillers, it might help calm you down enough to be able to phone them later

I've just started a new course of supposedly super duper antibiotics for the womb infection because the last lot didnt do the job.

I have found some of the co-codamol the hospital gave me when I left, so I have taken 2 of them.

I am finding it hard to accept BF is over, but its really impossible atm, they feel so bruised just touching them with my hands is excrutiating. There is no way I could even hand express atm.

money_maker_3

oh MrsM, I don't know what to say. I know the pain I had expressing when I didnt have Dylan with me and I was in tears constantly, and mine werent engorged !!

It might not be the end though. If you can get this under control, you can start again, your milk might not dry up too quickly !!

think positive and rant away, it makes you feel better !!

elle_gee

MrsM, one of the breastfeeding probs - might have been mastitis (sp?) - causes flu like symptoms! We learnt about it in the class I did.. Hold on, will see if I can find you some info

ETA: Does this sound like how you feel? http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Mastitis/Pages/Symptoms.aspx

Hi everyone else.. will be back to catch up in a min