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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 4

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  • Kilmaley01
    Kilmaley01 Posts: 273 Forumite
    40SM, it is tho, isnt it. It's the only thing so far thats actually encouraged me to do anything about my drinking. Nothing my OH or any friends would say would have made a difference. It's you guys on here, being able to talk about it openly, and knowing you are not being judged and that there are plenty more like us. xx:j
  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    edited 23 August 2009 at 4:26PM
    Gosh, 3 hours without a single post on here - is that a record? (no, a record's a small black round thing with a hole in the middle etc - boom boom!). And have just realised that only those of a certain age are even going to remember 7 and 14 inch records and get this (admittedly awful) "joke" :eek:.
    To me, good joke! & I've got 600 of 'em!!(I think they're only 12 inches, you optimist......)

    eta: I've got 600 singles, not jokes! you'll be relieved to hear.
    115K wrote: »
    :wave: I just realised that I'm on 100 days AF today.:j
    :cool::cool::T:T:cool::cool: well done hun x
    Welcome Back WB,

    So glad to hear you had a fab birthday. Must say you are looking fab @ fifty:T:T:T


    Catch up with you later:D

    40SM
    yeah, will do xx glad to read about Mum xx
  • Budgie,

    Hope you are Ok my lovely. have a lovely time in London with DS.

    Have a wonderful 25th Wedding Anniversary :A

    I have calculated that this would have been in the charts when you were newly- weds ( I hope my calculations are correct .... you can't always trust us accountants to add up :o)

    Anyway hope it brings back happy memories. ( Ignore the Christmas Bit)

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShN8UIk5-mw

    Love
    40SM:kisses3:
  • gromit2303 wrote: »
    40SM, it is tho, isnt it. It's the only thing so far thats actually encouraged me to do anything about my drinking. Nothing my OH or any friends would say would have made a difference. It's you guys on here, being able to talk about it openly, and knowing you are not being judged and that there are plenty more like us. xx:j


    There certainly are. I was reading an article in a mag Yesterday ( I think it was RED) Which said drinking a bottle of wine a night was almost the "norm" among women these days . I don't really talk about it amongst people I know but recently i was at a school function ( in the church I may add ) when one of the parents ( who is also a teacher at the school) said that her drinking at got out of control and that she can't get enough of wine. Then all the other parents nodded in agreement and said that is normal ... everyone does it. I kept "stoom" . At first , the paranoid me thought "this is a trap " they have rumbled me :eek: . BUT then I noticed that I was one of the few you did not have a glass of wine in my hand.:T .

    It doesn't make it any easier though:confused:

    40SM
  • winebox wrote: »
    To me, good joke! & I've got 600 of 'em!!(I think they're only 12 inches, you optimist......)

    eta: I've got 600 singles, not jokes! you'll be relieved to hear.


    :cool::cool::T:T:cool::cool: well done hun x


    yeah, will do xx glad to read about Mum xx



    Thanks hun:A


    40SM
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    For your little boy 40SM :D

    ym
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    For your little boy 40SM :D

    ym

    Thank you yellowmonky

    Simon :T:T:T:j:cool::j:rotfl:
  • winebox wrote: »
    I think they're only 12 inches, you optimist......)/QUOTE]

    Knew something wasn't quite right about that when I was writing it, but couldn't check as have given all my records to the charity shop - a job lot of Culture Club, Dollar, Kajagoogoo et al (hmmmm, 'donating' or 'dumping' going on here? :o).

    Got to confess to a glass in front of me too. A light red wine, shouldn't give me a headache tomorrow hopefully. Tomorrow it's back on that wagon and back to excersising too (oh god, I can't spell it let alone do it :rolleyes:).

    xx
  • kunekune
    kunekune Posts: 1,909 Forumite
    It's gone six and I haven't had my first drink tonight. The plan was a pre-dinner G&T, but I decided that I wasn't allowed to have it until all the food preparation was done, because I know from experience that I can sink a LOT while cooking, and barely notice or even enjoy it. So I've just had tonic so far. OH is now pouring me one with gin, and I'll sit down and have it without multi-tasking.

    I may have some wine with dinner but we don't plan to open more than one bottle.
    Mortgage started on 22.5.09 : £129,600
    Overpayments to date: £3000
    June grocery challenge: 400/600
  • Distracting self with gardening til shops closed - :)

    Fires on waves to all - wine bells clanging....
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
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