CSA to raid bank accounts?

Zara33

CocoPopsLover wrote: »

To be fair, some women can be complete female dogs!!

My joke of a mother did a similar thing to my sisters dad. used him to get pregnant, got 3 bed apartment for all of us and then she kicked him out then got all the benefits and forced him to pay child maintenance. He did not mind paying for his child as he wanted to see her do well and wanted to be an active father figure in her life.

Joke is she wasnt spending the money on my sister and I watched all of this but i was a little girl. when i was old enough, i moved out because i saw her to do the same thing to my dad and she never had a leg to stand on when i moved out as i was my own responsibility.

my sisters dad hardly sees the girl but still forced to buys all her clothes, pays her school fees, pay for her to go on holiday because my mum has decided she wants to go on holiday and then on top of that pay maintenance and still doesnt get to see the girl unless my mother clicks her fingers.

I think women like that are a disgrace and i really do feel sorry for men, i really do

He doesn't need to pay for all the extras.

Xaviera

i_hate_the_csa wrote: »

I hate the CSA - No it wasn't aimed at you! I put a double line break in but maybe should have put some ---- too.

Make sure you do next time!:mad:

:rotfl:

By the way,i do pay for my son.You should'nt really jump to conclusions.

I didn't jump to any conclusions, I just said to stop whinging about paying for it! :D (life's a bag of sh*t and then you die, the sooner you realise this the happier you'll be lol! )

The thing is for every NRP who gets stuffed over by the CSA, there seems to be many more who squirrel and hide money away that their kids never see, and it's the kids that suffer and struggle for it. So what would you rather?

CocoPopsLover

Zara33 wrote: »

He doesn't need to pay for all the extras.

he does because he knws very well that the money he gives wont go on the child and if it does, my mother will buy the bare minimum so she can keep the rest of the money for herself to accomodate her lifestyle requirements

sefish cow if u ask me

kaya

i now have a partner(wife) whom i love and cherish dearly, we have been together for 10 years, she has not "accidently" got pregnant in that time either and i trust her implicitly, fortuntly she has enough financial common sense for the both of us and my son along with any children we choose to have in the future will be extremely well provided for when anything happens to us, we will also have the financial power to help him get on the mortgage ladder and aid him through uni if he decides to go, so im not irresponsible or selfish and provided the csa dont get there grubby little hands on it(fat chance) and my son doesnt spend it all on drugs or ho's future generations of my/his family will have financial security to look foreward to

i_hate_the_csa

Xaviera wrote: »

I didn't jump to any conclusions, I just said to stop whinging about paying for it! :D (life's a bag of sh*t and then you die, the sooner you realise this the happier you'll be lol! )

The thing is for every NRP who gets stuffed over by the CSA, there seems to be many more who squirrel and hide money away that their kids never see, and it's the kids that suffer and struggle for it. So what would you rather?

I dont have a problem with paying CM but i do have a problem with the system.

And here's me thinking that was the whole point of this forum.......:money:

Xaviera

i_hate_the_csa wrote: »

I dont have a problem with paying CM but i do have a problem with the system.

And here's me thinking that was the whole point of this forum.......:money:

Wouldn't you agree the system is there for an important reason? (i.e to try and stop people hiding cash?)

Zara33

Xaviera wrote: »

Wouldn't you agree the system is there for an important reason? (i.e to try and stop people hiding cash?)

The system is terrible both for a PWC and a NRP, I doubt many NRP have that kind of money to stash away.

kaya

"(life's a bag of sh*t and then you die, the sooner you realise this the happier you'll be lol! )
"

its that type of attitude that keeps families seperated and allows the governbent to mug us at every corner, my life is NOT a bag of sh*t and i won't allow it to become one, "don't let the barstewards grind you down" is what i believe, this country has way too many people who are prepared to bend over and spread cheeks at the drop of a government statute or act of parliament
, i dont know anyone who voted gordon clown into power , do you?, and as for cash, i earned it, not gordon and his kronies, i paid taxes on it, my wife pays taxes, where do you suggest we draw the line then?

CMAC_2

CMAC wrote: »

Not sure about the trial but the start date is 3rd Aug SI 2009 1815 Child Support Collection and Enforcement (Deduction Orders) regulation 2009

Also going to charge £55.00 for the admin costs

i_hate_the_csa

Xaviera wrote: »

Wouldn't you agree the system is there for an important reason? (i.e to try and stop people hiding cash?)

Read my op Xaviera.I'm asking if it would be ok for the csa to take money out of the examples shown.

And before you ask.All my £1000's are nice and safe in my off shore accounts.:beer: