CSA to raid bank accounts?

Blonde_Bint

Zara33 wrote: »

Bit extreme :rotfl:the other poster did state that they both talked about contraception, so what more can he do sit her down and watch her take the pill. They were in a relationship where i suspect there was some amount of trust.

OK it is a bit extreme I give you that. But after the way my family have have lived/suffered at the hands of our PWC because of "the tools of mass destruction" handed out by the Gestapo" .... its your life and you are the one that will have to live with the consequences, so for me, I have learned my lesson, lessons that I will be passing on to my daughter and I wont hold back. As bad as this sounds if my daughter turns up with a bloke in tow who has a child, he will be on the way as quick as it takes my hubby to get his jack boot up the lads ar se.

people dont like others delving into their finances not because they have anything to hide but because they just want their finances to be just that theirs to do with as they like. when you have a child with someone you are not in a relationship with, your finances are not your own for the next 20 yrs fact so get used to it.

lol you'd do less time for murder:rotfl:

Zara33

kaya can i ask what type of order it was?

xmaslolly76

Just a quicky kaya if you dont know where she is and cannot locate her without spending tens of thousands of pounds as you put it. How do you know how many kids she has and exactly what ages they are and they all have different dads If this information is readily available to you a decent Investigator could find her quite quickly?

Just for point of reference my cousin found me after 9yrs just with my maiden name and the fact that i used to live on certain estate it took her one week to locate me and contact me.

CMAC_2

kelloggs36 wrote: »

Not according to the enforcement team in Dudley - they denied all knowledge of any such legislation - I even offered to quote the statutory instrument to them, but he said that even if the law was in place, there were no plans to roll this out. Same day, I read on NACSA website that they are trialling it from August with a view to rolling it out after about a year!!! I will bring this to his attention when I speak with him tomorrow.

Not sure about the trial but the start date is 3rd Aug SI 2009 1815 Child Support Collection and Enforcement (Deduction Orders) regulation 2009

i_hate_the_csa

Catenorfolk......Like i said,the CSA ruins LIVES.Did i say CSA just ruins NRP lives??

kaya

it was a simple court injunction, i now know how many kids she has as i recently found my sons bebo account, i contacted him through it and a few weeks later after sending him a message i was "anonymously" (ahem) reported for benefit fraud!!(which was proven to be a vindictive lie after an interview with a fraud officer, i am disabled and unable to work) and as for your next question he will be sixteen in a few months time so there is little point in persuing legal action now, coincidently after my benefit fraud investigation was over the next question asked by my son was "so what exactly do you do for work then?", bit of an odd question from a fifteen year old after so many years

Xaviera

i_hate_the_csa wrote: »

Catenorfolk......Like i said,the CSA ruins LIVES.Did i say CSA just ruins NRP lives??

Do you not think you should grow up and just accept the fact you have to pay for your kids, CSA or no CSA? This is how the world works and winging that it isn't fair doesn't really get you anywhere except you wind yourself up more.




I find the whole 'I'm not paying HER anything' bitter and immature, because in the end you're hurting the kids not the resident parent, and the kids will always remember you did that. *slow clap*

Zara33

kaya wrote: »

it was a simple court injunction, i now know how many kids she has as i recently found my sons bebo account, i contacted him through it and a few weeks later after sending him a message i was "anonymously" (ahem) reported for benefit fraud!!(which was proven to be a vindictive lie after an interview with a fraud officer, i am disabled and unable to work) and as for your next question he will be sixteen in a few months time so there is little point in persuing legal action now, coincidently after my benefit fraud investigation was over the next question asked by my son was "so what exactly do you do for work then?", bit of an odd question from a fifteen year old after so many years

Maybe he was trying to get to know his father and didn't know what else to ask.

xmaslolly76

I wouldnt find it a strange queation from a teenage lad thinking about his future he is at the age of doing his exams and looking into what he might like to do when older after all.

kaya

Xaviera wrote: »

Do you not think you should grow up and just accept the fact you have to pay for your kids, CSA or no CSA? This is how the world works and winging that it isn't fair doesn't really get you anywhere except you wind yourself up more.

just because this is how you believe the world works doen't make it right




I find the whole 'I'm not paying HER anything' bitter and immature, because in the end you're hurting the kids not the resident parent, and the kids will always remember you did that. *slow clap*

lol, the kids wont remember anything because i was not there to be remembered, how pray tell have i hurt my son by not paying the government half of my wages for 15 years?, he has not seen or spoken to me thanks to his bitter and immature mother, if she had been working and my son would have benefited from the extra cash rather than the governbentt snatching it i may have viewed things in a different light