CSA to raid bank accounts?

xmaslolly76

Im just playing devils advocate here but you are on benefits the state is keeping you. You say you can't work due to your disability yet you have been sat at your computer for the last 5 hrs typeing on here why couldn't you do that in an office?

Zara33

kaya wrote: »

lol, the kids wont remember anything because i was not there to be remembered, how pray tell have i hurt my son by not paying the government half of my wages for 15 years?, he has not seen or spoken to me thanks to his bitter and immature mother, if she had been working and my son would have benefited from the extra cash rather than the governbentt snatching it i may have viewed things in a different light

How sad..............

i_hate_the_csa

I find the whole 'I'm not paying HER anything' bitter and immature, because in the end you're hurting the kids not the resident parent, and the kids will always remember you did that. *slow clap*

I have to agree with you but I guess this is direct at myself? :rolleyes:

Xaviera

kaya wrote: »

lol, the kids wont remember anything because i was not there to be remembered, how pray tell have i hurt my son by not paying the government half of my wages for 15 years?, he has not seen or spoken to me thanks to his bitter and immature mother, if she had been working and my son would have benefited from the extra cash rather than the governbentt snatching it i may have viewed things in a different light

They'll remember you being an absent Father then, even better to have a Father who not only pays nothing but isn't interested in seeing them.

You just said you were on diability allowance, make your mind up. You sound bitter as hell and quick to balme others.

I hate the CSA - No it wasn't aimed at you! I put a double line break in but maybe should have put some ---- too.

xmaslolly76

Have you put anything away for his future then Kaya you say you didnt want the government or the Ex getting the money even £10 a month into a trust fund would have given gim a bloody good start in life when he is old enough to be out there on his own ?

kaya

i am on fenternyl for pain relief, that is approx 100 times stronger than morphine, i would be a danger to others if i were in an office or on the road, some days i cannot even string a sentence together or manage to get out of bed unaided, i am one of the people on benefits who would love to go work, i did so for 20 years, i dont think any companies liability insurance would cover me with the pain drugs i have to take , i am trying to get myself on a degree course so one day if i am well i may have a career to begin again, its unlikely though , i have seen two specialist surgeons who have deemed my condition inoperable and degenerative

kaya

yes i have made financial provisions for his future

i_hate_the_csa

I hate the CSA - No it wasn't aimed at you! I put a double line break in but maybe should have put some ---- too.

Make sure you do next time!:mad:

:rotfl:

By the way,i do pay for my son.You should'nt really jump to conclusions.

xmaslolly76

Fair enough then on both counts but i still stand by what i said that any absent parent should pay up even if they cant stand their ex!

CocoPopsLover

To be fair, some women can be complete female dogs!!

My joke of a mother did a similar thing to my sisters dad. used him to get pregnant, got 3 bed apartment for all of us and then she kicked him out then got all the benefits and forced him to pay child maintenance. He did not mind paying for his child as he wanted to see her do well and wanted to be an active father figure in her life.

Joke is she wasnt spending the money on my sister and I watched all of this but i was a little girl. when i was old enough, i moved out because i saw her to do the same thing to my dad and she never had a leg to stand on when i moved out as i was my own responsibility.

my sisters dad hardly sees the girl but still forced to buys all her clothes, pays her school fees, pay for her to go on holiday because my mum has decided she wants to go on holiday and then on top of that pay maintenance and still doesnt get to see the girl unless my mother clicks her fingers.

I think women like that are a disgrace and i really do feel sorry for men, i really do