The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

time2deal

No, I'm not sure. I looked back at my posts and I was talking about it on about the 12-13th of Feb (what would we do without our posts to look back on!), but that was only some EWCM and excessive weepiness which isn't that unusual these days!

So - it could have been delayed, for a million reasons. It's PROBABLY that... but my brain won't shut up as usual.

TeamLowe

T2d I'm only being sensible on your behalf cos of the blocked cervix worry, my fingers are crossed x

time2deal

TeamLowe wrote: »

T2d I'm only being sensible on your behalf cos of the blocked cervix worry, my fingers are crossed x

I know! And I do appreciate it.

Whole bunch of new cramps tonight, so perhaps she is still on the way. I'm not really hopeful, but you know how hope sneaks up on you!

:beer: to everyone tonight. Hope you are all rugged up on this cold rainy night! I might go find myself a red wine to really tempt fate!!

onestep

T2D.. I've got some Shiraz open here, have some with me

bigzippy

Makes slightly more sense now then TLowe, but they were still stupid to suggest it if they couldn't follow through! I also can't work out why they're sending you to Merseyside from PieEaterLand (;)), but, the NHS can be an unfathomable beast at times :cool:

T2d hopefully all will become abundantly clear soon :cool: how long have you been recommended to let that "area" rest?

I'm not too bad, thanks. Been really busy lately with friends & relatives piping out the woodwork.

Really looking forward to finishing clomid tbh! I'm really concerned that it's worsening the endo, while doing nothing (seemingly) of worth :cool: I start the cycle utterly convinced that there's no way it's going to work, I'm just going through the motions begrudgingly, we'll be getting referred for ivf... And I talk like that naturally, not even a question. Then we get to around mid 2ww and that cowbag Hope rugby tackles me to the ground! I start imagining, all over again, what getting that illusive bfp would be like. What my post would say on here. How I'd tell my husband and closest friends/family. When it might be due. You know, the usual ttc-crazy stuff I haven't bothered with opks/cbfm/checking cervix, or any of that this cycle, though. My (.)(.) are really sore and I'm the most spotty I've been in a long time so hormones are clearly doing something... :cool:

I think part of the upset about my gp leaving was fear of the unknown. I hate going to unknown places, meeting unknown people, having unknown (to me previously) procedures etc. It really stresses me out, and doing any of those things when you're already in a vulnerable state is even worse. So I guess I'm worried the replacement doc will be awful and we'll have to find a new practice, with all new location & staff etc. it's the little things sometimes

Whattodonow

BZ I am dreading the two week wait for exactly the same reasons.

Quick question to the ladies who have tried clomid. Had no symptoms now since the day 7 (now day 12). Was expecting some ov pain or to ov early but nout happening. Do you think this means clomid isn't doing anything?

vseviour

WTDN, I only felt pain and aches about a week after OV/before AF. Stabbing pain below by tummy and really sore nips x

Peonie

Sorry Big Zippy and TeamLowe; I have broke your code. I was from PieEaterLand but now live in RedRoseLand.

TL, if it's the same hospital I'm thinking of then it is a specialist clinic so it will be good. Are you bothered about the distance?

an9i77

Whattodonow wrote: »

BZ I am dreading the two week wait for exactly the same reasons.

Quick question to the ladies who have tried clomid. Had no symptoms now since the day 7 (now day 12). Was expecting some ov pain or to ov early but nout happening. Do you think this means clomid isn't doing anything?

The first month, the clomid worked (I ovulated) and I got strong ov pain.
The second month, the clomid didn't work and I didn't get any pain
The third month the clomid worked,I didn't get any ov pain, but I fell pregnant.

So I don't think you can really tell too much from my experiences, but hope that helps

bigzippy

Whattodonow wrote: »

BZ I am dreading the two week wait for exactly the same reasons.

Quick question to the ladies who have tried clomid. Had no symptoms now since the day 7 (now day 12). Was expecting some ov pain or to ov early but nout happening. Do you think this means clomid isn't doing anything?

I've had uncomfortable ovaries on some of the cycles and less so on others. Don't worry too much. Are you having any tracking scans/blood tests?

Peonie wrote: »

Sorry Big Zippy and TeamLowe; I have broke your code. I was from PieEaterLand but now live in RedRoseLand.

TL, if it's the same hospital I'm thinking of then it is a specialist clinic so it will be good. Are you bothered about the distance?

Not much of a code

Was the gynae in PieEaterLand's hospital TLowe?