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The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • onestep
    onestep Posts: 893 Forumite
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    BZ.. Hugs. Change is never easy, & I understand why it feels like your support network is going. BUT - we're still here. We're not going anywhere. And we'll all be so excited when you come on here and tell us WHEN you get your bfp. ;)
    When people show you who they are, believe them the first time
  • bigzippy
    bigzippy Posts: 4,034 Forumite
    Thanks onestep :A feeling very fragile right now.

    The grief about his dead Mum and our infertility has been reawoken, for me and Dh. His pain is almost palpable. I hate seeing him so sad :( It doesn't help that where we live (we only stayed inn this area for his mum, when she was alive) we have no family within 40 miles, & very few local friends :cool:

    Anyway, I could ramble and moan and whinge for a while. :o

    Hope you guys are all ok and tea, I hope your dh is getting through ok.
    "I am indelibly stained by hope and longing" - Nuts in May
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    BZ - sending you huge hugs, infertility can feel so lonely and when you have a loss such as you have had it can hit you hard. We are all here for you though.
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    Lots of love BigZ, don't know what to say apart from i think it's completely understandable that this is hitting you so hard.
    but you'll always have us :)
    i know this is my solution to every problem, but could you and DH get away for a weekend? change of scenery does me the world of good x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • sarahs999
    sarahs999 Posts: 3,751 Forumite
    Hello all. Just a very quick announcement to say I am now officially a graduate of this thread - baby Inigo Henry was born on 21 feb weighing 6lb 4oz. We had a rough start as he was readmitted to hospital with jaundice and dehydration, but we are home now and starting to get to know one another. Can't believe he's finally here - a real miracle.
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Sarah - that is great news, thanks for sharing with us. Good to know that miracles can happen. Congratulations x
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    oh sarah such massive congratulations to you! proper welled up :) if you have time (hope he's sleeping well for you!) could you give us your history for us newbies? i want to bask in all your miracleness lol x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    sarahs999 wrote: »
    Hello all. Just a very quick announcement to say I am now officially a graduate of this thread - baby Inigo Henry was born on 21 feb weighing 6lb 4oz. We had a rough start as he was readmitted to hospital with jaundice and dehydration, but we are home now and starting to get to know one another. Can't believe he's finally here - a real miracle.

    Congratulations! And what a beautiful name. See you on the newborn thread :)
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    Big Hugs Zippy - a someone else said, change is sometimes very difficult to come to terms with. I find it particularly hard when I have no control over whats happening either :( Hopefully your next GP will be equally as supportive. When 1 door closes, another opens (or some rubbish like that :o)

    Runner - How are you doing at the moment? Is anything getting easier for you?

    Congratulations Sarah, nice of you to come back and tell us. I also love the name - unusual ones always appeal to me :)

    Tea - So sorry to hear of your sad news. I hope you and DH are holding up okay.

    MrsH - Hope you're getting some rest and that you and OH are coming up with a plan of action you are both happy with.

    AFM - I've got the European athletics on the TV at the moment and it just did a recap of Jess Ennis' final, Greg Rutherford's long jump and Mo Farah's race and I am actually sobbing. Literally tears are pouring down my face. Just !!!!!!?
    8DPO and have just been for my progesterone test. I totally forgot to go yesterday and was so annoyed with myself. I've felt okay the last few days but am starting to feel really emotional now. I think OH and I will probably stop TTC after my last cycle of clomid which feel very upsetting to say :(
    14th October 2010
    20th October 2011
    3rd December 2013
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
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    Huge hugs to bz xxxx

    Congrats Sarah!

    Hi lily. When do you get your progesterone test results?

    Cd1 here now, full flow so clomid tomorrow :) is there a best time to take it?
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
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