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The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Cd2 here and feeling awful, af is really painful and heavy which is unusual for me. Why after all these years of trying unsuccessfully does it still hurt so much when af appears. Think I need to accept that I have come to the end of the line and I am never going to be a mum:o
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Primmer, have a dodgy hug from us :grouphug:
    Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
    MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
    Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 2036
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    lots of big dodgy hugs peonie af is a right cow and i hope you feel more positive soon x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    huge hugs Primmer xx
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • Hello all

    I might be late to the game with this but for those with unexplained fertility new research came out in nov about the cause related to damaged DNA in sperm.

    There's a test that can be carried out, and apparently if damage is found they recommend ICSI rather than IVF

    More info here http://www.lewisfertilitytesting.com/the-spermcomet-test
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    mrsh - big, big hugs to you and your OH. Hope you're doing ok today. Thinking of you xx.

    TTC - congrats!! Hope everything's going well.
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    I feel so crampy :( ouch!
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Cd1 :(
    Oh well at least I have a plan
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Hey ladies,

    Sorry to not read back, but thought I would drop by to say today was operation day and I am now hopefully starting my proper recovery. :)

    Doc says we can go back to TTC in 6 months.. its silly that that is my big focus! But I think we need some happy things to aim for now.

    The drugs here are fun as usual. Hope everyone's well.
    Blog I'll update the blog in a moment, although I seem to have been in touch with so many people already!
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Hi T2D,

    I'm amazed you're well enough to write. That's great news. I hope you recover quickly.

    Px
    Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
    MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
    Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 2036
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