The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

TeamLowe

big hugs runner, hope it's what juju said, be thinking of you x x

bigzippy

Thinking of you runner! I can't offer any advice either but crossing my fingers tightly

Tea, congratulations on your new employment status!


Managed to bd yesterday morning, and this morning, and tonight - so at least both peak days are covered and every other day before. Hoping for another tomorrow, and maybe I'll relax after that ...or try 2days after tomorrow, as per SMEP :think: assuming DH it's willing, of course! Not all that convinced that ov has happened yet though... might check the cervix position if I get up again tonight :cool:

Thanks V and Lily

Runnerduck

well the bleeding has stopped and another test this morning shows a positive, but i'm far from relaxed, see how today goes now




Good luck TTC40 hope it all worked, they do seem to be pretty accurate with their timing, as i know with ours we are booked in at exactky 36 hours after injection x

EverTheOptimist

Ah runner - I'm quietly pleased for you and keeping fingers crossed that the bleed was nothing.

I know it's so hard not to be too excited and to stay calm and realistic at the same time, when you see the positive, it's all so very surreal.

Thinking of you. And hoping this is your time. xxxx

lilymay1

I'm sorry, I think I may have missed something somewhere. Runner, is this a BFP you are reporting? But you are very (understandably) concerned because you are bleeding? I have everything crossed for you that it's nothing. I will follow ETO and say I am quietly excited for you

Zippy - Good work on the BD'ing. Hope this is your cycle.

I'm not very happy at the moment. Just so annoyed and frustrated that, right now, I could have been taking clomid had they not cancelled my fricking appointment. It just feels so hopeless knowing that this cycle is effectively a waste and I'm only on CD4

TTC40

lilymay1 wrote: »

I'm sorry, I think I may have missed something somewhere. Runner, is this a BFP you are reporting? But you are very (understandably) concerned because you are bleeding? I have everything crossed for you that it's nothing. I will follow ETO and say I am quietly excited for you

Zippy - Good work on the BD'ing. Hope this is your cycle.

I'm not very happy at the moment. Just so annoyed and frustrated that, right now, I could have been taking clomid had they not cancelled my fricking appointment. It just feels so hopeless knowing that this cycle is effectively a waste and I'm only on CD4

Yes - Runner started bleeding so did a test & got a BFP

lilymay1

TTC40 wrote: »

Yes - Runner started bleeding so did a test & got a BFP

Thanks for clarifying. Sorry, I've not been able to keep up with the thread much.

It must be so awful for you runner, but great news that you've stopped bleeding now. Fingers crossed for you xxx

vseviour

Just to say my best friend felt dizzy two years ago, went to doctor, found out she was pregnant at the same time as she thought she was on her period (albeit, slightly lighter than usual). She now has a healthy girl. She was a bag of nerves for around a month, but it ended happily. I hope you have the same outcome Runner xx

Chocolate_Cookie_Monster

Hoping all is well for you Runner, and hoping this is your BFP. When I got this BFP I had spotting and some bright red blood ( I thought it was all over), I had this at 5 weeks and 7 weeks. I hope it's not too serious with you too x

Runnerduck

thanks all, consultant rang me again this afternoon, as bleeding has stopped, only tiny bits of discharge now, she has said it is probably an implantation bleed as i am on the blood thinning injections and these would have made it much worse, i have to keep on the higher dose of meds and try and relax, i have to call her if there is any change before monday, at least i feel a bit more reasured now