The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Primmer

SS - good luck for tomorrow.

jujugaboo

SS - what does of menopur are you on and remind me again how old you are. Good luck for ec hope you get some good ones.

Runner - hope you are doing ok.

Had another scan this morning all moving along, have to start LH testing tomorrow. Hope when it comes to it my frostie is ok.

Runnerduck

jujugaboo wrote: »

SS - what does of menopur are you on and remind me again how old you are. Good luck for ec hope you get some good ones.

Runner - hope you are doing ok.

Had another scan this morning all moving along, have to start LH testing tomorrow. Hope when it comes to it my frostie is ok.

feel a bit numb at the moment to be honest, just spent this afternoon out sorting my veg patch and raspberries,and chatting to the chickens:o i just feel like life is in limbo, you all know what i mean by that. might go and do a bit in the garden i used to work in next week, it's beautiful down there and really lifts the spirits

glad everything is going well, do you know the date of your FET yet? fingers crossed your frostie will be perfect

bigzippy

Good luck silly sausage

Hope the gardening helped, runner


I've got more Af/spotting. Not sure if it's non-ov AF or if AF hasn't kicked in properly yet :cool: Don't know until I can look back retrospectively what to call cd1, so although in theory I could ring for my hsg, I'm not sure I can be bothered I'm not sure I can deal with it just yet anyway - my head's enough of a mess with grieving atm. I hope if I'm not pg by then, that I'll have another chance (with my wonky cycles) to get it done before my rescheduled fs appointment (end of august) though. I was happy enough to postpone it 3 months this time, I don't think I'd be so laid back about postponing it again :cool:

Another fb friend announced their pregnancy via a posted scan pic from the 20 wk scan today I think it made it harder that it was a 20 wk scan rather than a 12 wk one, for some reason? Maybe cos I know they got married well after us, and she's now through any ttc bit and already over half way through her pg, while I've still got nothing (in that way) to show for this time period?

Loads of people have been asking us, since Mil died 4wks ago, when we're having kids/if we want them/to crack on with it :cool: Not entirely the best timing on their parts I know it's mostly because people crawl out of the woodwork for funerals, so they're catching up on our lives etc, but still... :cool: I think it was the first time (that I've been there for anyway) that dh has been asked, and on one occasion he replied with "working on it"! I must've gone bright red on the spot imagining what images could've been going through their heads!

Runnerduck

sorry you are having a tough time of it bigzippy, people can be so tacyless sometimes. look after yourselves xx

sillysausage1977

Hi Guys, got back from collection, amazingly they got 7 eggs from me, considering this times last week I thought it was all off I cannot believe it (even 2 more than last time!). For some reason this time I didn't full fully asleep, but was sedated enough for it not to me painful. This may be tmi but when we were walking back to the car I felt a massive clot come out. Since going to the loo it was something I have never seen before?!!! I feel fine so probably nothing, Probably all that prodding around they were doing!!

Just go to wait for the dreaded phone call tomorrow morning eecckk!

Big zippy - Arn't follk just great (huggs) xx

Jujugaboo - I was on 3 x powders to 1 x water I had to do this twice for 2 injections.

Runner - I hope your ok xx

bigzippy

Some days it just hurts so much, not having our baby/bump.

This is one of those days

Bluemeanie_2

bigzippy wrote: »

Some days it just hurts so much, not having our baby/bump.

This is one of those days

I feel your pain. Some people who got married after us now have a baby. Course then you have to listen to the comments "it's about time you two had a baby" and the like. I don't think people should pass comments like this anyway, every time I hear one it's like they have kicked me in the guts!

Primmer

SS - that is great news, keeping fingers crossed for you.

BZ & BM - huge hugs

Runnerduck

sillysausage1977 wrote: »

Hi Guys, got back from collection, amazingly they got 7 eggs from me, considering this times last week I thought it was all off I cannot believe it (even 2 more than last time!). For some reason this time I didn't full fully asleep, but was sedated enough for it not to me painful. This may be tmi but when we were walking back to the car I felt a massive clot come out. Since going to the loo it was something I have never seen before?!!! I feel fine so probably nothing, Probably all that prodding around they were doing!!

Just go to wait for the dreaded phone call tomorrow morning eecckk!

Big zippy - Arn't follk just great (huggs) xx

Jujugaboo - I was on 3 x powders to 1 x water I had to do this twice for 2 injections.

Runner - I hope your ok xx

thats great news sillysausage, fingers crossed for them all fertilizing, i had a clot too the evening after ec, but there was nothing else so i assumed it was ok

i borrowed my niece today and took her to the smallholders show, we had a lovely day and i was able to spoil her as she loves all the animals too, it all helps to keep my spirits up