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The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Bluemeanie_2
    Bluemeanie_2 Posts: 1,076 Forumite
    Finally got results from DH's sperm test. I'm gutted. It was a big fat 0. In bits right now. Doctor was horrible too.
    I'm never offended by debate & opinions. As a wise man called Voltaire once said, "I disagree with what you say, but will defend until death your right to say it."
    Mortgage is my only debt - Original mortgage - January 2008 = £88,400, March 2014 = £47,000 Chipping away slowly! Now saving to move.
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Runner, I'm so sorry (((hugs))).
    What are the options in June?

    sillysausage, glad the follicles are growing:)
    I think it is OK to get excited, as it boosts the immune system:cool:
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Bluemeanie wrote: »
    Finally got results from DH's sperm test. I'm gutted. It was a big fat 0. In bits right now. Doctor was horrible too.
    (((Hugs))):(
    Will they do an op to retrieve the sperm from inside?
  • Bluemeanie_2
    Bluemeanie_2 Posts: 1,076 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    (((Hugs))):(
    Will they do an op to retrieve the sperm from inside?

    We are not eligible for anything further on the NHS. Given no information, nothing. He just showed Hubby the screen and let him read it. Then Hubby asked what are options, he went nothing on NHS, I'll do you a print out. And we left.
    I'm never offended by debate & opinions. As a wise man called Voltaire once said, "I disagree with what you say, but will defend until death your right to say it."
    Mortgage is my only debt - Original mortgage - January 2008 = £88,400, March 2014 = £47,000 Chipping away slowly! Now saving to move.
  • countrybum
    countrybum Posts: 439 Forumite
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    Runner - I am so very truly sorry to hear your news....take care of each other xxxx
  • Cake4brains
    Cake4brains Posts: 546 Forumite
    Runner, I am so so sorry to hear that. Sending you lots of (((hugs)))
    :j:T Gorgeous twin girls born 1st Nov 2012 :T:j
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Bluemeanie wrote: »
    We are not eligible for anything further on the NHS. Given no information, nothing. He just showed Hubby the screen and let him read it. Then Hubby asked what are options, he went nothing on NHS, I'll do you a print out. And we left.
    Are you willing to go private on this?
  • BugglyB
    BugglyB Posts: 1,067 Forumite
    Bluemeanie wrote: »
    We are not eligible for anything further on the NHS. Given no information, nothing. He just showed Hubby the screen and let him read it. Then Hubby asked what are options, he went nothing on NHS, I'll do you a print out. And we left.

    How bloody rude is that? I'm outraged for you. They should get struck off for behaving like that. Yes they are busy but what is two minutes for a sympathetic smile and a quick run down of your options. Knobhead.
  • Runnerduck
    Runnerduck Posts: 3,146 Forumite
    I won, I won, I won! I've been Money Tipped!
    Bluemeanie wrote: »
    Finally got results from DH's sperm test. I'm gutted. It was a big fat 0. In bits right now. Doctor was horrible too.

    sorry bluemeanie, they can collect the sperm straight from the testicles, i wouldn't think you would get it on the nhs though xx
  • Runnerduck
    Runnerduck Posts: 3,146 Forumite
    I won, I won, I won! I've been Money Tipped!
    QQuaver wrote: »
    Runner, I'm so sorry (((hugs))).
    What are the options in June?

    i have been reading up and looking into IMSI, as everything is pointing to there being a problem with the embryo's, as the problem seems to be when i get pregnant with hubbys embryo i miscarry as i had the boys and no miscarriages with my ex years ago, i dont know really but a lot of very early miscarriages are genetic problems. we have got the appointment to discuss all our options, but they seem to be getting fewer :o
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