The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

gettingthereslowly

Sorry ive been awol for a bit! stupid laptop broke :mad: sort of fixed now

Congrats Winky :j

Good luck sillysausage, juju, onestep and qquaver keeping my fingers crossed for you all and anyone else out there

finally had my date for dildo cam but its not til the end of feb. hoping ill have some answers shortly after that and fingers crossed for some progress.

onestep

Ugh. Am never going to get used to that!! The 300 of supre-whatever was fine, did that in my tummy no problems. Tried the menopur and the syringe stuck, & I started to feel faint.. So i took it out, had a moment, & then DH did the injection in my bum. He loved doing it! :eek: I think it made him feel involved actually. How I'm supposed to do that volume I do not know, but I guess we'll find out. Just as well DH is home a day early..

epsilondraconis

JuJu - so sorry to hear about the liquidation. I've been through that once before. In addition to submitting the claim for statutory redundancy, ensure you sign on for job seekers as soon as you can so you don't miss out.

Sometimes nothing seems to go right, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. I just hope that it's a very short tunnel for you.

jujugaboo

Thanks for all your kind messages. I am contacting Job Centre tomorrow (after my scan) and I have a big form to fill out to send to the Government and hope to get some redundancy from them.

Onestep, you will get use to the needles I promise, I still struggle a bit now and this is my 4th time but then again I am needle phobic. I let my DH do the first ever one but them found it easier myself as I could then sense the pain. If you got the same Menpour needles I have then they are rubbish and I switched to the ones I use for my Buserlin.

Good luck. x

QQuaver

jujugaboo wrote: »

QQ, when is EC? we could be 2ww pals!! or are you staying off the board?

Egg collection was today, but they couldn't find the egg on the lead follicle and they only got 4 immature ones. It's one of those mild IVF/IVM thingy, and they only do FET using blastocyst, so I think this cycle is a bust:o

I did similar last month, and they collected 6/7 mature eggs, but only one made it to early blast, and arrested:(

I'm lurking these days tho:o

Bad news for me today just been told that I have been made redundant today and the company is going into liquidation and I am not getting paid this month!! Couldn't happen at a worse time with IVF and just after Christmas so i am skint. Can't afford to get stressed and worried about it now got to look after my body but its not going to be easy.

Life is so sh*t at times, and this is one of those times I am sure I will have another one in about 3 weeks too.!

(((((Hugs))))):(

mokba43

Hey everyone!
I had my 17th-in-a-row BFN this morning... i knew it anyway as having cramps for a week now.

Today i am finding it really hard to keep it together. No particular reason. It is just a struggle, i want to curl up and cry myself into oblivion; im sure it doesnt help.....

How do you all cope with things? What do you find helpful to just lift your head up and keep going?

fluffnutter

mokba43 wrote: »

Hey everyone!
I had my 17th-in-a-row BFN this morning... i knew it anyway as having cramps for a week now.

Today i am finding it really hard to keep it together. No particular reason. It is just a struggle, i want to curl up and cry myself into oblivion; im sure it doesnt help.....

How do you all cope with things? What do you find helpful to just lift your head up and keep going?

You poor love. It's heartbreaking isn't it. There's not much you can do when you feel so low. Try to remember that tomorrow will be a little brighter. And what's wrong with having a good cry? Totally warranted in the circumstances I'd say. Plus it always makes me feel better.

All you can do is pick yourself up and try again. Try to keep busy, that's the best thing x.

Runnerduck

hi all, just found the pregnacare vitamins a lot cheaper on the lloyds pharmacy site

http://www.lloydspharmacy.com/en/pre...th-pack-158617

might help some of us save a few pennies xx

free delivery at the moment too, but only until monday i think, have just stocked up.

Runnerduck

sorry QQuaver, was wondering how you were getting on as you've been quiet lately ((((hugs))))

mokba, sorry you are feeling down, i'm afraid it does not get any easier only after years of bfns you sort of learn how to cope and put on a brave face, have you had any tests etc? chatting on here really helps as everyone it in the same situation (((hugs))) hope you feel a bit better soon xx

sillysausage1977

Hi All,

Day 5 past transfer today and still nothing apart from my sore boobs only 9 more days to go...

Juju - really sorry to hear about your job situation, I really hope you get some sort of redundancy money.

QQuaver - Have they told you if they can do anything with what they have collected - hugs to you xx

Onestep - I hope you get used to the injections soon xxx