The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

sarahs999

Congrats cedrickerry! v exciting.

Runner, I'm confused. Why would you not be able to try for six months? I have been offered medical management several times and although I never took it they never said we couldn't try for six months.

Is an ERPC not a possibility (like the old d&c)?

jujugaboo

Congrats Cedrick!!! Twins!!! you are so blessed may it all go swimmingly from here on and hope to see you on the other thread soon!

Runner, hope things happen naturally for you or an easier solution.

Runnerduck

sarahs999 wrote: »

Congrats cedrickerry! v exciting.

Runner, I'm confused. Why would you not be able to try for six months? I have been offered medical management several times and although I never took it they never said we couldn't try for six months.

Is an ERPC not a possibility (like the old d&c)?

hi, the consultant told us that it can stay in your system for up to 6 months and could affect an embryo embedding, and as we are IVF he we wouldn't want to waste our chances as he put it.

not sure abour ERPC think i will have to ask more questions, he was saying about not wanting to cause more damage to my scar tissue,


toniq i admire you taking time and doing things slowly. i am a very impatient person and i gave up my job when i got the positive result, as gardening was too risky, i am now jobless, i am going to redecorate the house and do all the diy jobs that need doing, but i will be climbing the walls if i have nothing to focus on and i have finished all my decorating

nichart20

Lw - so so sorry I had everything crossed for you, If this is your first cycle since the immunes and you got a BFP I hope that's given you hope for your next cycle x x

Runnerduck - I hope things happen natrually for you and soon so you don't have to go through surgery x x

Juju - I am loving your PMA x x

Toniq - plan looks good and even better all happening soon x x

cedrickerry - Congratulations must have been lovely to find out x x

CCM - hope everything went well at the appointment today x x

Chickpea - glad you have managed to get somewhere to get the hycosy done, fingers crossed you won't need it

Jiblets hope all is going well with your final weeks of pregnancy x x

I hope everyone is well x x

I am only day 3 after 3dt and feeling a bit meehhh it's my own fault I should not google!!

toniq

Loads and loads of sticky vibes nic xxxx

plumpmouse

Thinking of you Runnerduck

Congrats Cedric - lovely news.

liloandstitch

Wow, Cedric, thats FAB news - 2!!!!!!!!!!! Let me know when you want to go on the graduates list, and all the little details. Well done girl!

St

liloandstitch

nichart20 wrote: »

I am only day 3 after 3dt and feeling a bit meehhh it's my own fault I should not google!!

Repeat after me ....... Google is not my friend, step AWAY from the computer !!!!!

Have fingers crossed for you XX

Lilo

liloandstitch

Runnerduck wrote: »

hi, the consultant told us that it can stay in your system for up to 6 months and could affect an embryo embedding, and as we are IVF he we wouldn't want to waste our chances as he put it.

not sure abour ERPC think i will have to ask more questions, he was saying about not wanting to cause more damage to my scar tissue,


toniq i admire you taking time and doing things slowly. i am a very impatient person and i gave up my job when i got the positive result, as gardening was too risky, i am now jobless, i am going to redecorate the house and do all the diy jobs that need doing, but i will be climbing the walls if i have nothing to focus on and i have finished all my decorating

I assume that if it is imbedding in the ovary or tube, they would need to do a laparoscopy rather than a DnC to resolve.

It is good that they are being so thorough, although it may not feel it at the moment, I am sure you just want your body to do its thing and reabsorb. If they do end up surgically, can you ask them to flush your tubes at the same time? I think you said that there may be a prob with this tube anyway? This may not be helpful, in which case, just ignore me!

As to afterwards, just be kind to yourself, and do what you feel ready to do, when you feel ready. I assume as you stopped work there is not the financial pressure to return? I hope it all works out for you pet XXXXXXXXXXXX

Lilo

liloandstitch

A big hello to everyone, good luck to everyone on the 2ww.

I am round about ov I think, so just coming up to the 2WW myself. (note how positive I am that I have ov'd)but I am also very tired, as is OH, so not terribly enthusiastic in the BDing department! (TMI)

Lilo