The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

jujugaboo

Nichart, keep away from Google, I know its hard and you can tell me again in my 2ww but I agree its not your friend. I have had different symptons both times so i am not sure there is any real sign that it has worked. Keep the PMA, feet up and rest.

Lilo, good luck this month, find the strength from somewhere for some BDing.!

lisawood78

Nic good luck for your 2WW, Google simply doesn't help in this situation, having been through 7 IVF 2ww's they have all felt different and I couldn't have picked the BFP out from the BFN's if you asked me to, every cycle can feel different.

Good luck ladies, I am still stuck in limbo land with hcg levels at 125 , can do nothing til they are back at 0, but hospital seem to be happy to leave it to do it on its own, but I am still in danger of a rupture so can't so anything much, no lifting, exercise, hoovering, basically anything remotely energetic. I want to get out and start on my garden etc but I can't and I might be like this for weeks.
It is a truly awful place to be in.
Runner i'm sorry you are still stuck also, it is horrible having to face up to the loss and then still having no resolution at all, I hope they can sort whatever they need to for you asap so that you can move ahead as and when you feel ready.
Good luck this month Lilo, get jiggy ;-)

Runnerduck

Nichart, keeping my fingers crossed for you in your 2ww, try to relax and look after yourself xx

lilo, good luck with the BDing hope this is your month. xx thanks for the info regarding tubes, but our problem is sperm so dont think it will make any difference to our chances, and i'm quite lucky workwise oh has his own buisness, house is paid for, no debts, my job was for the extras and luckily i have won this years hol at bovey castle, but we can live without them anyway,

lisawood sorry to hear your still in limbo like me, hope your levels come down quickly so you can move on. i was going mad doing nothing so have just been out and done some gardening, physically the doctor would not be happy, but mentally it has done me the world of good, tomatos, physalis, cabbages, sweatpeas and some pots of crocus have all been put in. the doctors have told me i'm not to go walking or out on my own, which is stressfull as when im down i always head for the hill! i'm not sure what the chances of a bleed are or are they just been very cautious.

toniq

Runner ((((()))))))) pls be careful if u go out, take a mobile with u xxxxx

liloandstitch

toniq wrote: »

Runner ((((()))))))) pls be careful if u go out, take a mobile with u xxxxx

Ditto - dont take any risks, its not worth it XXXXXXXXXXX - Nor you lisa xxxxxxxxxxx

Love and light to you all, happy bding, 2wwing and have a great weekend folks

Lilo

chickpea

Thanks Lilo - maybe I'll try to elevate my mood...

I'm feeling a little gloomy after being sat next to my colleague who left on maternity leave yesterday - I'll miss her, and I like her, but all day yesterday, everyone was coming up to her to talk babies and I just wanted to tell them all to shut up and go away.

Then I got home and looked at Facebook, and I have my friend who's pg posting 'how exciting! Everyone's pg! Can't wait for all these new friends for (her son)!'

I really should commit facebook suicide.

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CD15 for me- and absolutely *nothing* on the OPKs - looks like it's going to be a superlate OV for me this month.

That means I'll have to phone the FS again, and get the cd21 test postponed. There's no point doing a test to confirm OV before I've OV'd and I really don't think I'm going to OV before CD21 this month.

I don't think the Clomid is doing much for me.

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The bathroom scales are not kind to me at the moment either, despite the fact I've been more or less on the straight and narrow. Gargh.

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Marmite smells a little bit like newborn nappies. So even breakfast made me sad today.

Have a good weekend everyone!

QQuaver

Runner, take care and don't go anywhere without your mobile:o

chickpea wrote: »

I really should commit facebook suicide.

I've hidden many people's comments off Facebook:p

CD15 for me- and absolutely *nothing* on the OPKs - looks like it's going to be a superlate OV for me this month.

I'm going au naturale this cycle, so here's to super late ov:beer:

Marmite smells a little bit like newborn nappies. So even breakfast made me sad today.

Newborn nappies smells like marmite?:shocked:

liloandstitch

Ah the joys of being old, I dont even have a facebook account!

Sorry you are feeling down Chickpea, although I do understand wanting to murder all pregnant women. My daughters in law will all start producing in the next few years, and that will make me very sad.

Marmite! I have heard it called all sorts of things but that frankly putrid smell has never reminded me of marmite!

Good luck with the ovulation girls doesnt matter when it happens, its still a chance.

Lilo

toniq

I think i have half of mse on my fb lol x nah, just compers so we can share comps etc, it does sting when everyone around is pregnant, just stay positive xxxxxx
B'ding lol...........poor him, every time i pat his arm he looks terrified xxx

nichart20

Hi ladies

Lilo thanks for the advice I have banned myself from google, Good luck for this month, hope the tiredness went x x

LW hope your levels drop soon, cant imagine what your going through right now ((hugs)) x x

Runner try take it easy, I can't imagine what your going trough but ((hugs)) for you too x x

Chickpea enjoy this weekend if OV due soon I have lots on hide on FB

toniq wrote: »

B'ding lol...........poor him, every time i pat his arm he looks terrified xxx

:rotfl:I might try this I am a little less subtle

I am staying away from google but it's now 5dp 3dt and implanting should be happening today (please please please)