The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

liloandstitch

They sound good juju, tell us a bit more ......

Sarah, mine do that from time to time - it should settle down.

LIlo

Chocolate_Cookie_Monster

Hello All,

I have been AWOL the last few days. Just getting my head together but I have been lurking.

Lisa and Runner - you you are both OK.

QQ - Good luck for Thursday.

Chickpea - you are selling reflexology to me. I will have to have a look into doing it. Happy BDing - And that goes for you too Lilo!!!

Ummm - I need to read back - hope everyone else is busy BDing or patiently waiting in the 2WW (and avoiding SS!!)


I had my 2nd appt last week. They didn't have my OH SA results. They couldn't find them :mad:. They seemed quite embarrassed but we continued with the appt anyway after lots of shuffling around from pillar to post whilst they searched. I find the appts quite stressful as it is. Anyway our next step is Superovulation and IUI. Its a huge step and well its quile a lot to get your head around which is why I took a few days off from here. I read through all the leaflets but I know a lot of you have experience and knowledge so I hope I can pick your brains and ask some (maybe silly) questions from time to time.

I am CD 26. Very dark brown spotting (I think its from some BD'ing at the weekend which caused bleeding). No sore BB's or cramps so I think I ovulated late as I normally have light red spotting by now.

I need to get some PMA. Wish I could just order some with my weekly shop. :cool:

jujugaboo

AF has arrived, finally.

My friend gave me these Detox pads as I wanted to try some and she had a pack. You basically stick them to your feet at night and they are suppose to draw out all the toxins and bad stuff from your body, its like reflexology but nobody touching your feet and a lot cheaper. In the morning they are brown and sticky and pretty gross really. Some people say they don't do anything and its a con but I thought it was quite good.

Murray

Hi all

Jujugaboo - boo hiss to AF for turning up, onwards and upwards though!

Lisa & Runnerduck - sorry to hear what you are going through...I hope things resolve themselves for you naturally soon xx

I'll have a read back but in the meantime, good luck & baby dust to everyone!

M

lisawood78

Hi ladies.
Am still here, nothing has changed that I know of.
Still show positive on cheap pg tests (10 miu) clear line, I think this is going to be a long few weeks til the hcg has gone totally.
Next blood test on Thurday to see what numbers say now, am really hoping that they have almost gone but I don't think that will be the case. I hate hoping for that though, it is so horrible that I am hoping to not be pregnant anymore.
7 weeks 3 days now, but of course i'm not really as it has never been viable but it is such a horrible feeling, if things were ok I would be over the moon right now, we would have seen a heartbeat etc and be counting down til we could share our good news but that simply isn't to be.
Still feel pregnant, sore boobs, bloated etc
No point to my post, just writing it down to try and mark it off I guess, Hubby had to go back to work today and not sure when he will be back again so feeling very blue.
Thinking of you Runner and hope you are doing ok.
Thoughts to everyone else also, sorry I seem so self absorbed
LW78

QQuaver

sarahs999 wrote: »

Hi all. My cycle's gone mad. I'm late, very late for me, but not pregnant and no sign of my period either. Temps still high.

How many days of high temps did you get?

jujugaboo wrote: »

I have been using Detox food pads at the moment (try anything once) and in the morning they are thick with brown stuff and really sticky,

Sounds good:cool:

Chocolate_Cookie_Monster wrote: »

QQ - Good luck for Thursday.

Thanks:o

Anyway our next step is Superovulation and IUI.

I've done 3 IUIs:o

lisawood78 wrote: »

Still show positive on cheap pg tests (10 miu) clear line, I think this is going to be a long few weeks til the hcg has gone totally.

Mine didn't get negative until about 2 months after the mc op.
(((Hugs))).

nichart20

Lilo glad you got your energy back

chickpea glad your reflexology went well just in time for for + opk

sarah hope your cycle sorts it's self out, did you use OV test?

CCM how annoying they did not have your OH results, I have not had IUI but QQ has, I need some of that PMA too x x

Juju yey does this mean you start on next AF x x

LW (((hugs))) so so sorry it must be awful, come and get your feelings out whenever you need, you are not at all been self absorbed we are here for you x x

Hope everyone else is well x x

sarahs999

QQuaver wrote: »

How many days of high temps did you get?

They've all been high above the base line since ov - today is currently 17dpo. I oved on day 17 (yes, did use an OPK and did the BD at the right time too, so all the more galling!). Also my boobs are still sore. Normally my cycles are between 28 and 31, usually 29. This is day 34. Am now busy convincing myself that I'm menopausal :rotfl::(

QQuaver

sarahs999 wrote: »

They've all been high above the base line since ov - today is currently 17dpo.:(

17DPO!:eek:

Chocolate_Cookie_Monster

sarahs999 wrote: »

Normally my cycles are between 28 and 31, usually 29. This is day 34. Am now busy convincing myself that I'm menopausal :rotfl::(

Our bodies play funny tricks at times. I hope you get your AF - or even better a BFP soon - that will banish meopausal thoughts x