The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

liloandstitch

Added now Ive read the forum - WELL DONE GINVZT - Good luck for the follies and brilliant news on the weight and referral.

Lilo

sarahs999

Well done Ginvzt

ginvzt

Thanks all, I am really happy!!!!

Now, I just need to make sure that the consultant send out the letter. Apparently, he is going on holiday next week or the one after next, and his secretary is on holiday this week. the nurse wasn't sure about talking to him to let know that I have lost weight, but I hope she will, as otherwise it could take for ever chasing it.

The nurse said that the there is no waiting list, so once the ball starts rolling, it is going pretty fast. And my consultant prefers referring to Liverpool, as better success rates.

Ok, we are going to view the house tonight (just got a call from OH). I guess we will just see it inside and get scared. We already agreed that we are not getting into bidding war. If it is not meant to be, it won't happen. There are lots of viewings apparently (I would imagine for that price/size/land combination...).

jiblets1

Great news Ginvzt - a real achievment...

nichart20

Yey Ginvzt that's great news could you contact them and ask them to send the referal now and then if you don't need the referal (keeping my fingers crossed you don't) they can take you off the list later

Hope the house viewing goes well and you love the inside as much x x

Lilo so pleased all your tests came back ok hope the next set in 4 months come back the same and also your MRI on your back and shoulder, hope your not in too much pain x x

I know what you mean about the mundane I just don't think its the same when you have been trying for ages, I can't wait to be able to have sex and not think am I ov, is the timing right don't want to use his good swimmers and choosing to put my legs up in air after rather than a nice cuddle, we were told not to do it while we were down regging and then I was not sure when we could or not so it's been a while :rotfl: quite tempted even though I could see the look of fear in my OH eyes when they mentioned 4 babies at once

sexki11en

Great news Lilo and Ginvzt. Fingers crossed all the way for you both.

SK x

Legacy

Great news Ginvzt and Lilo :-D

Nichart - When I went back on clomid after m/c I had folicle scan and they said that there was about 4 ready to.. erm, pop, or whatever it is they do and that I should avoid any hanky panky.. anyway, 2 bottles of wine and 28 days later and a BFP test :-D Unfortunately, fate had other plans even though there was only 1 at the scan. But, nevertheless, I'd be tempted if I were you. :cool:

QQuaver

Went to fertility clinic today:)

Bad news, PCOS (as I suspected), good news, it should be easy to treat with Clomid.
I did mention I'm trying Soy, but he was not impressed:p

He said I need to get my cycles to normal length. He also said my luteal was on the short side:shocked:

He said my mc was probably due to chromosome prob, everybody has one mc etc etc, but also said it could have been due to me oving late.

There were few follicles maturing on the monitor, and he said I'll be fertile next week, so come back for blood test next Wed.

I asked if I should stop BD, but he said do whenever you feel like it.

I have to take DH's semen sample over to the hospital tomorrow or the day after. DH thinks he has super sperm and he probably has:mad:

Glad I went though. I feel relaxed already as I've transferred my problem to the doctor, and it is now his problem to sort out:o

gizmodo_2

That all sounds pretty positive Quaver. You sound a bit happier about things too.

ginvzt

nichart20 wrote: »

Yey Ginvzt that's great news could you contact them and ask them to send the referal now and then if you don't need the referal (keeping my fingers crossed you don't) they can take you off the list later

Hope the house viewing goes well and you love the inside as much x x

I will wait till next week to talk with his secretary, as the nurse who took the weight was not exactly with it. I hope she will pass it on, if not, I'll get the secretary to sort it out. It will probably take couple of weeks more if he is on holiday, but at least it will happen. Besides - we are going on Holiday for the first two weeks of July, so we can wait. Not that we want to.

The house. It needs complete refurbishment inside - plumbing (no central heating or gas at the property, heated with 2 coal fires downstairs), probably rewire, replaster (def, there was a leak from the roof which we were assured was fixed, but the ceiling not repainted/sorted, besides, all the wallpaper coming off as no one lived there for 2 years), new bathroom, new kitchen (ok, you could live with it for a while), def new windows, garden is a big jungle (not joking, the nettles up to your waist, you can barely find the path). But, the garden is huge, has some fruit trees (well, at least apple and cherry). We will be thinking hard and doing our sums. Ok, we would probably like a bigger house, but it is nice. If you can see beyond the flaking ceiling, peeling wallpaper, avocado bathroom suite, sloping floors and so on... Anyway - if we need more space, we could just pitch a tent in the garden and live there;) It is huge (house stands on 1/4 acre!!!)