The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

It's really not just you sweetie. They're some pretty strong hormones, which you're taking at a stressful time, for an upsetting reason... no wonder you're not feeling yourself!

When I was on menopur (well, all of the drugs really) I was an emotional wreck. I can remember posting one night in floods of tears because I'd gone out with OH and his mate was in the pub and for some reason I took that as a massive insult and a sign that he was going to leave me.... !!!!!!?! I was also an emotional wreck when I was 30.

I know that doesn't sound very helpful :rotfl:! Just wanted to let you know that it's not just you, you're not going mad, and it will pass. Chat to us when you're feeling sh.itty and we can be mad and hormonal at the world together, thinking of you xx.

vseviour

Part Mouse, a friend said to me it's like going through menopause and puberty all within weeks. Of course you're gonna be emotional! Don't be too hard on yourself, and let it out, otherwise it'll just build up. Good luck today x

Part_Mouse

Thanks to both of you. Just had scan and bloods.nice thickened womb lining but not follies yet lining id over 9mm now. I just hope j get a dominant follie as im great at gettkng a thickened lining but not so good at producing some eggs.
Thanks so much for your support.

tea_lover

Thickened lining is a v good start, have my fingers crossed for your follies! x

Am just about ready to kill at work today :mad::mad:. I have to place loads of orders and everything has to go through this one girl who's lovely, but omg nothing ever gets done. I've got things she should have ordered 2 months ago and all you ever get from her is an email saying she'll get back to me, or saying that she's done things she totally hasn't.

I'm being chased for loads of things and I'm just sick of banging my head against a brick wall with her. Really don't want to go over her head but I'm running out of options.

Rant over , not ttc-related I know but I'm hopefully nearing ov. and stupid people are not helping my stress levels.

Part_Mouse

Thanks tea, getting all sorts of boob twinges aswell.

Hugs for stupid people at work.

Part_Mouse

Has anyone had tripple stripe lining, wasn't feeling very good his am but I'm sure the fs said that's what I have.nver heard if it before.

littleme82

Hey everyone. Well we are now officially at the 1 year TTC point. Am on CD28 (cycles usually 28 days) so I guess I could test but I am still in the not knowing if I have even OV stage so am planning on waiting until saturday.

In any event I am getting my FS referral on monday. I now belong in the group with you lovely ladies

Clomid shortened my cycle last month. I have no symptoms at all. Guess I could POAS........by not knowing though there is still that little bit of hope though.

Partmouse - oooh sounds all very promising - hope it works for you

Wonderwoman - you have a great boss! I don't even have a contract so not sure what I will get!

Pickle - hugs

xxx

vseviour

Hi Littleme82!

Part mouse, I think FS told me that the three lines on the scan meant the lining is thick now, if that's what you mean? X

Part_Mouse

Welcome little me I hope you don't have to stay here to long.

Vsevior I think thats what the fs ment my lining is over 9mm but no dominant follies yet.

Wonder_Woman

So today I have been day dreaming about actually starting treatment and just wondering - do you have to start your down regulation at a certain point in your cycle e.g CD1 or can you just start whenever depending on when appointments fall? Sorry if that if is stupid question but you all sound so knowledgeable and I haven't got a bl**dy clue what is about to happen :rotfl: