The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

fannyanna

tea_lover wrote: »

Can definitely relate to the comfort eating recently - I popped a button off my work trousers this morning and they're now held together with a paperclip!

Oh dear

becca0417

Fannyanna that's great news I really hope it happens quickly for you x

I had my trigger shot this morning! Very excited. 2 follicles. Have a sore bum now!!

time2deal

Hi Ladies,

Just a quick drop in to say hi. I'm still reading a bit, but trying to keep away a bit. I know it's not nice of me, but I've really struggled with so many people moving on. It's great, but also so bloomin' depressing to be nowhere after so long.

Nothing changing with me a the moment. Still the longest cycle in history, but at least today I got to see the FSH/LH leves and I'm definately not in menopause. The levels were very low, in theory I was at the start of my invisible cycle, so that could be right. It matches my feeling though that I have just shut down and stopped working.

Nothing can be done right now. Doc says to just wait and it will probably sort itself out (always love that advice!). I am seeing my surgeon/gynacologist in two weeks, so he will hopefully start to follow up so I am lucky that I am already in the system and will be looked at soon. I know there is something you can take to start your period, so he may do that. I'm not supposed to be TTC at the moment anyway, but it's just so frustrating to see another thing go wrong. I'm not sleeping, and I think a tad depressed. I just want these things to be sorted out soon so I can restart IVF in August.

And don't talk to me about weight. I'm back up to my peak weight, and even doing the 5:2 diet thing for a few weeks isn't making any difference. sigh... BMI is 31 so it's not terrible, but if I could just shift a stone and keep it off I'd be much happer.

tea_lover

Big hugs T2D, you've had so much going on lately it's no wonder you're having trouble sleeping. I find that everything else looks worse then as you're just so blooming k.nackered all the time. Really hope things start to look up for you soon.

fannyanna wrote: »

Oh dear

I know! They're still really tight, I may have to find a looser paperclip!

Becca - operation BD is good to go then!

becca0417

Anyone had pregnyl injections? I guess I don't need to use opks!

tea_lover

Is that similar to ovitrelle?

Primmer

Go Becca - trigger shot done, go go go !!

Time 2 deal - hugs honey you have had such a tough time it is bound to affect you and to ave struggles with this board.

Fannyanna - that sounds like a positive meeting and congrats on weight loss.

becca0417

tea_lover wrote: »

Is that similar to ovitrelle?

From what I can tell!

She said to bd every night for next 3 nights that sounds like v little & quite spaced out??!?

becca0417

time2deal wrote: »

Hi Ladies,

Just a quick drop in to say hi. I'm still reading a bit, but trying to keep away a bit. I know it's not nice of me, but I've really struggled with so many people moving on. It's great, but also so bloomin' depressing to be nowhere after so long.

Nothing changing with me a the moment. Still the longest cycle in history, but at least today I got to see the FSH/LH leves and I'm definately not in menopause. The levels were very low, in theory I was at the start of my invisible cycle, so that could be right. It matches my feeling though that I have just shut down and stopped working.

Nothing can be done right now. Doc says to just wait and it will probably sort itself out (always love that advice!). I am seeing my surgeon/gynacologist in two weeks, so he will hopefully start to follow up so I am lucky that I am already in the system and will be looked at soon. I know there is something you can take to start your period, so he may do that. I'm not supposed to be TTC at the moment anyway, but it's just so frustrating to see another thing go wrong. I'm not sleeping, and I think a tad depressed. I just want these things to be sorted out soon so I can restart IVF in August.

And don't talk to me about weight. I'm back up to my peak weight, and even doing the 5:2 diet thing for a few weeks isn't making any difference. sigh... BMI is 31 so it's not terrible, but if I could just shift a stone and keep it off I'd be much happer.

Sorry I missed this post. Huge hugs to you t2d. I think they can give provera to start period? Hope that they can give you some useful info soon. There is nothing worse than 'waiting for something to sort itself out'. Whatever that is!
Take care of yourself xxxx

Peonie

tea_lover wrote: »

Just heard one of my all-time favourite songs on the radio and feel a bit low now.... maybe I need to start liking cheerier music!

I felt extremely down about 2 months ago and listening to Mazzy Star's depressing song 'Into Dust' really helped me get out of it.

Last month we had a break from trying because of the op and that also helped my mental state. This month we're back to normal - I'm peeing on sticks again.