The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

mrshappy

Part Mouse, I hope you get some answers to your questions

BZ, nice to see you, this is bokwa-

http://bokwafitness.com/

It's good fun, but hard work, especially when I go straight into a metafit class after it

Hi Nikki, how are you? :wave:

bigzippy

Sounds both intriguing and knackering, mrsh!

tea_lover

PM - good luck for your appt today, I hope you get some better information.

Primmer

PartMouse - let us know how you get on with fs today, will be thinking of you.

AFM - not ttc related but in hospital waiting for operation on my knee, so bored as tv not working in my room!

lucyloo77

Thinking of you PartMouse, really hope the appt goes well today.

Oh Primmer - ouch, bad knees suck!! Good luck with the op!

Part_Mouse

Primmer ouch, I hope your op happens soon. Will be thinking of you.

Not good news again today, last cycle Deffo failed, got to have another hsg and dh has to repeat his sa, can't be seen until July. Feel like its never going to happen, in 3 years of actively ttc I have only ov once.will start injections when I get he all clear.

Sorry to moan, I know so many have had it worse than me. Xx

tea_lover

Moan all you like pm, we've all had it tough! Sorry to hear your appt didn't go too well. Hopefully July will come round quite quickly x.

fannyanna

Part_Mouse wrote: »

Not good news again today, last cycle Deffo failed, got to have another hsg and dh has to repeat his sa, can't be seen until July. Feel like its never going to happen, in 3 years of actively ttc I have only ov once.will start injections when I get he all clear.

Sorry to moan, I know so many have had it worse than me. Xx

I'm sorry your appointment has left you feeling so hopeless Part Mouse. I can completely understand why you feel the way that you do. I think that when you have problems with ovulation you can sometimes feel that you're stuck on the starting blocks with no possible way of finishing the race.

You don't need to apologise for "moaning". That's what everyone is here for. Please don't feel that your situation doesn't rate high enough on the "sh*t scale" to justify feeling upset. It does.

You're right that most people on here have gone through hell in their quest to conceive. But your pain is as real as everyone else's pain. I don't think for one second that anyone would sit and read your post and think "Why are you moaning? It could be a lot worse". Everyone else here knows how painful this journey can be and I'm sure they can empathise greatly with how you must be feeling.

x

tea_lover

As ever, fannyanna has expressed beautifully what I was thinking.

We've all got different problems that have brought us here, we've all been TTC/been on the thread for different amount of times, we've all got different TTC histories - but that doesn't matter. The important thing is that we all get it. We get how incredibly frustrating it is to have yet another rubbish appointment. We get how horrible it is to feel jealous of your best friend for daring to be pg again. We get how annoying it is when someone tells you to just relax and it will happen.

There is no sh*t scale, it's all sh*t! The only good thing is that we're all here for each other with a dodgy hug whenever needed :grouphug:

Part_Mouse

Thanks FA and tea

Its such a shame were all here but the support here is so lovely.FA is very right feeling stuck right and the bottom with not being able to climb up is so soul destroying we all need some light at the end of the tunnel don't we.

xx