The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

TeamLowe

Fannyanna I had a HyCoSy rather than a HSG but the fiddling about is the same, I think, just an ultrasound rather than an xray

I had absolutely no issues, took about twenty minutes and didn't really feel anything at the time, apart from a slight tugging when she moved the dye tube things and just period type cramps afterwards and spotting for a few days

I was asked to change into a gown and it was just the sonographer lady x

becca0417

Fannyanna I answered on the other thread but hope you're ok xx

Hope everyone is ok x

fannyanna

Thanks for the info everyone. Much appreciated x

becca0417

Quick q... I used to get sore boobs just before af but I'm 3/4dpo and they are very sore! I've obviously still got the hcg in my system frm trigger as still getting +opks ... Any experience of this?

tea_lover

Becca, my boobs were really sore all through my ivf 2ww. Some of that was prob cyclogest but some of it was the trigger shot as well I reckon. Although technically I was pg too so maybe that's what made the ladies hurt. So basically I'm rambling a lot and will now shut up lol. Fingers crossed for you xx

bigzippy

Becca I've had sore boobs during many 2ww's (though not all), at differing dpos sometimes too, but straight after ov-ish was the most frequent. I couldn't really bank on the same lot of symptoms twice tbh. Hth . Good luck

time2deal

loulou123 wrote: »

Sorry to hear your in same position, I haven't gone to docs yet, so I'm still in the situation where I'm (stupidly) clinging onto the hope I actually am pregnant and for some reason the tests just aren't showing it!

Like you I was always happy to have a normal cycle but now even that's been taken away by looks of it, I'm just praying that things return to normal this month and its just been a blip.

Hope all the things you are trying help out, ny next stop is to go to docs I guess.

Big hugs xx

I still randomly test from time to time. Week one now of Chinese medicine and I'm all full of cramps and moodiness, so fingers crossed something is happening. It's either that or dh is actively trying to pi$$ me off! Hopefully moodiness is a short term thing.

9 days to gyne appointment.

becca0417

Thanks ladies x I guess I just have no idea what my normal is now! Which freaks me out!!!!

T2d hugs xxx

tea_lover

I really think I might be at the end of my tether with OH, cannot begin to explain how much he's doing my head in.

fluffnutter

tea_lover wrote: »

I really think I might be at the end of my tether with OH, cannot begin to explain how much he's doing my head in.

Will he talk about stuff? A miscarriage is a terrible thing. I know I said it before, but men tend to grieve by shutting down. Do you think it could be this? I know too that he's reluctant to try again - do you think he's scared?