The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

Hey FA - as the others have said, it's lovely to see you but I wish you weren't here iyswim! Have a little welcome kiss :kisses3:, makes a change from the dodgy group hug lol

Part_Mouse

Welcome FA, sorry to have to 'see' you here, hope your stay is short though.

Tea wow your appt sounds really positive, I hope you can find a way to try again.

xx

becca0417

Fannyanna hope you are not here long xx

Tea that's good news about your appointment. I hope your OH comes round quickly xx

fluffnutter

tea_lover wrote: »

Exactly.

I know it might never happen, probably won't ever happen, but I have to try. Problem is, oh says we have tried.

Never say never. But you do need to get your OH on board. It's such a short time since your first attempt - perhaps he just needs more time. Men grieve in funny ways - he might just still be hurting.

In a funny way, I'm sort of pleased that both the OH and I are pretty rubbish in the fertility area. It was probably ultimately my problem, but his lazy-arsed swimmers didn't help. We needed ICSI every time. If you're both challenged, there's no temptation to blame or feel guilty and it can make things feel a little more balanced. Doesn't help your chances much though

mrshappy

sounds like a good appointment tea, I've always found mrh to have a knee jerk reaction to things, then he generally comes round and is more open to discussion after a couple of days.

Welcome Fannyanna

AFM, I have now lost 17lbs and have become a mental metafitter! I will be in bloody good shape for the next load of treatment.

becca0417

Just had my tracking scan and he won't give me the flipping injection because I've got 2 large follicles. Git. Can you tell I'm stropping?!

Part_Mouse

Mrsh well done, that's amazing.how long did it take?

Afm Ive got my tracking scan today, trying to be hopeful but not really feeling very hopeful.

Xx

Part_Mouse

Becca does he think the follies will be good to go soon?

Xx

tea_lover

becca - what do they do instead? Do you just have to wait?

part mouse - hope the scan goes ok today.

lucy - thinking of you. Have everything crossed that it's good news this morning xx.

mrshappy - very impressive! My weight has really gone up over the last few months, I need to get a grip on it while I still have some clothes I can fit into!

Part_Mouse

Thanks tea, feel really emotional right now xx