The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

sarahs999

Lilo, sorry for you. I know what you mean about feeling slight relief as a line has been drawn under it; sometimes it's harder when there are limitless options that might or might not work. But be kind to yourself fo ra while.

Cat woman, so sorry. I've had three m/cs in similar circumstances. I don't know your story but if you want to chat you can PM me. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Just to let you know it turned out I have two blood clotting disorders which are responsible for my M/cs, have you been checked for anything?

nichart20

Lilo im sorry to hear about the appointment, but its great news that you have ovulated this month and your fsh levels are good, is all ok with your OH

gintvz, go you getting to gym especially in this weather too all I want to do us get home and get my pjs on

nadine220 thats sweet of your OH, hope the Persona works this month x

I am still keeping my fingers crossed for this month I am on CD13 and it feels like the angus castus has woken up my ovarys put I dont know if its just my mind playing games

lots of baby dust for everyone else, I have heard that orange is the colour of fertility so maybe we should all have white pants with orange knickers on underneath :rotfl:

Leopardlady

Oh Catowoman i am soo sorry, (((((hugs)))) I hope you are able to have a rest and look after yourself. Take care

ginvzt

nichart20 wrote: »

gintvz, go you getting to gym especially in this weather too all I want to do us get home and get my pjs on
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I am still keeping my fingers crossed for this month I am on CD13 and it feels like the angus castus has woken up my ovarys put I dont know if its just my mind playing games

I've only managed to get to the gym because I am working from home today. If I am going to the office, as soon s I get home, I want my pyjamas on! I know what you mean about this weather - somehow this year the evening are feeling darker earlier than ever!!!

I am CD 12 today, we fingers crossed it works for both this month!

It is freezing in the house today!!! My fingers are freezing as I type!

meercat71

hi there all

Catowoman - so sorry to hear your news

Lilo - well done for drawing the line and who knows maybe you will be one of those stories that everyone tels (and I have at least 5 friends it actually happened to - but not to me - of falling naturally after giving up) I have always said 3 gos and no more otherwise you can just get obsessed and broke...

Well we had not such bad news yesterday thanks goodness cos I am a hormonal wreck at the moment - I have responded better to the doubled dose so we are going ahead with egg collection on Friday...

ginvzt

Good news, meercat!!!! Relax and take care of yourself, Friday is not too long away!!!!

Oh, we need more happy news here!!!!

shelly

meercat71 wrote: »

Well we had not such bad news yesterday thanks goodness cos I am a hormonal wreck at the moment - I have responded better to the doubled dose so we are going ahead with egg collection on Friday...

Good luck and I hope they get lots!

meercat71

Thanks so much - will let you know how I get on xx

liloandstitch

good luck for Friday, meercat, I am glad you got a better responce.

Ginvzt, you are an inspiration. Sadly I didnt even do my weekly swimming session tonight as I am too knackered after yesterday. May be asleep soon ........

Lilo

jiblets1

Lilo, just wanted to second everyone's sympathy and good wishes. Your good attitude is just fantastic, and I must say I think I'd agree. All the possibilities (however slim) are really hard to focus on. You can take some time now to enjoy some time with OH and reassess how you want to move forwards. Pressure off, breathe and take some time.

Count down to my op- 5 days. Eek!