The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

I may have to slap my oh. I swear he's annoying me on purpose just to be a d.ick

mrshappy

Tea lover, he probably doesn't realise-at times during the course of the ICSI I actually hated mrh for simply being in the same room as me

ETA-I don't really hate him, but he was a total kn0b sometimes, and I was a bit loopy (see, I can admit it now:) ) His best comment was after we knew it hadn't worked and were discussing trying again:-

him- "maybe wait a couple of months, to get over this and to give you time to get in shape and lose some weight, after all the better shape you're in the better chance it has of working"
Me (starting rational, but getting louder and screechier until I burst into tears) "you think it didn't work because I didn't try hard enough, or do enough, I have eaten all kinds of F***** fruit and veg, been acuF******punctured till I look like a pincushion, stopped smoking, stopped drinking, stopped drinking coffee, and I didn't f****** do F******* enough and now I'm fat? F*** you"

A bit hormonal possibly But it all okay-I forgave him for saying something silly :rotfl:

VK-2008

Oh well af reared its ugly head again
Back to hosp tomoz for another go of iui

mrshappy

VK-2008 wrote: »

Oh well af reared its ugly head again
Back to hosp tomoz for another go of iui

:(sorry to see that VK, take care of yourselves xxxxxx

time2deal

Sorry to hear that VK. Sending lots of hugs.

Tea Lover - I'm also resisting the urge to kill DH just for breathing. I think AF is on the way, in fact I'm pretty sure, but in this post surgery world I really don't know how to read my body anymore. Here's something I just realised - no cervix = no EWCM! So I don't know now how to tell if I ovulate. Not that knowing helped in the past I suppose, but it was always comforting to know I was at least ovulating.

On the positive side tea - if you do kill him - his part of the job is already done! Just don't get caught.

(too soon?!)

MrsH - I think you are my hero. I would love to have the courage to shout that.

It seems I am in a mood tonight. I'm advocating shouting at husbands and much worse. I think its time for T2D's sleeping tablet...

Primmer

Sending big hugs VK

tea_lover

I feel really ill! Have got a really upset stomach and feel v sick (not been sick yet though). How can I tell if it's a cyclogest side effect or a terribly timed bug?

24hrs to ET and tbh I feel like I won't even be able to leave the bathroom.

fluffnutter

Could it be a touch of OHSS?

tea_lover

Looking at the list of symptoms again I guess it could. I thought if I was going to get that it would have been before now. Had a blood test on wed which I think was ok.

Feel really rough now though....and worried about my embies!!

VK-2008

Well guys I need your help went to fs today they said I can't have treatment this month as I have two follicles this month one at 2 cm nd one at 3cm
Is this usual for cd2???? Is it good or bad for this to happen?
Eeeekkkk
She said that I could try and come bk for a scan on Monday but the follies will still be there she thinks
Arrrgggghhh confusion
Help me please