oi what you doing here

taxi73

How's the shoulder?

itsarichmansworld

Hi el!

Long time dear how are you?

Reading your first post at work I'm back too 9k in debt and counting why do I always do this to myself!

Hope your well

ps I still owe you dinner!

elantan

Tim_Deegan wrote: »

If you sleep on your side then pocket sprung with memory foam would have been better, as the pocket springs will contour to the shape of your shoulder. The reflex foam under the memory foam in your mattress won't.

Also £900 is way over priced for a reflex foam/memory foam mattress.

I'd stay away fro Dreams if I were you.

i didnt know that i wouldve been better with a pocket spring mattress will keep that in mind when we buy the next one ...yeah i spose £900 was too much to pay but it seems that is the story of alot of my life lol ...i seem to manage to save money on cheap things but expensive nah ...think i will stay away from dreams though

elantan

hey all...it's been a busy few days as usual in elantan world ...shoulder is in agony i have done the whole tens machine woodstock lotion and windmilling my arm (oh hell did that one hurt but it did improve it slightly) mil still in hospital still ill ...hubby oh well that is a whole other story ...

he decided not to go to the sauna so had a drink instead then the next day obviously hungover started !!!!!ing about money etc ...so the stage was set the lines drawn and i did not back down ...he did believe that i had money put by but i dont and i think the reality of that finally hit him ...and he finally and i mean finally settled down and started listening and understanding ..it still isnt solved as he is still going on and i think another doozy will come up to be honest i can see it simmering ...i think it was because i stood my ground and answered every thing he threw at me so now i think he is sitting stewing and thinking of other ways round it lol ....but i am standing firm ...


scratchies have been kept up to date and things ticking over as before but i feel as if now i can start to make headway on this extra debt we managed to find ourselves in due to son, car etc so that i can get back onto the dealing with the debt it feels like i am thinking of debt as two different entitys all together ...the one big debt that i want to get rid of and the one small one that i aint even gonna get to starting on the big one till it has gone...

elantan

itsarichmansworld wrote: »

Hi el!

Long time dear how are you?

Reading your first post at work I'm back too 9k in debt and counting why do I always do this to myself!

Hope your well

ps I still owe you dinner!

rich how are you hun ? i havnt seen you in ages where have you been? i dont really have msn anymore it keeps crashing on me and booting me off ...i think to be honest with you i need to get a new laptop but money it stretching that far lol ...we will need to meet up again though and have a good natter ...

i also wanna meet up with skinty as well will need to get back in touch with her

taxi73

Hi Elantan..hang on in there.We are all here for you!!!...come and rant whatever and whenever you need to and we will listen and try to help.
I had an idea that he thought you had money set by to rescue the situation as you normally would..I am so glad that you are sticking to your guns and he will in time (I'm sure) understand where you are coming from and then you may be able to move forward.It's just a bit messy before he gets to that point.

I agree that looking at debt overall gives a better picture as well.Take care xx

elantan

i think i did make that rod for my own back taxi ..i did used to keep emergency money by ...but i am not doing that anymore ...changed days here

oh and to top it all he phones tonight while i am at work and tells me his mum wants me to do her taxes for her ...i cant do my own taxes they scare me senseless cause i aint got a clue ...but then i have more of a clue than she does so i will have a new talent to learn a spose

shaun40400

HI EL
WAT U DOING UP AT SILLY OCLOCK!!!

ITS SO NICE NICE TO HAVE SOME PAIN JUST TO REMIND US WE ARE STILL ALIVE:rolleyes::rolleyes:{NEEDED LIKE A HOLE IN THE HEAD}
WELL THATS WHAT I TELL MY SELF:o,THAT AND "" ITS JUST MY KNEE REMINDING ME IM DISABLED" :rotfl::rotfl:

OPPS CAP LOCKS

been a bit busy the last few days getting ready for my trip...
hope the arm/shoulder,,,,frees up for you and you get some relief:cool:

keep working on oh,,,i think thr message may be starting to get through:p:o
hugs s xx x

Karmacat

Well, I guess learning a new skill (taxes!) is helpful.... but why does OH want you to do MIL's, if you don't know how to do them? Have you *said*, I don't know how? I mean, just cos somebody asks, doesn't mean you have to say yes! Helping, sure, but *doing* is a bit different!

I hope your shoulder/elbow feels a bit better today. What a b*gger on that bed!

taxi73

I agree with KC...
Your lot know how to pile the pressure on,don't they?
Can she not get who was doing them previously for her to do them?

Hope that your shoulder is feeling a bit better today.