oi what you doing here

taxi73

Morning Elantan..am so glad you are sticking to your guns.I think your approach to this situation is very sensible.I truly believe that the only way he will learn is to experience this for himself.He probably still believes you will miraculously produce another pot of money when he has run out...Boy is he in for a shock!!!
There's no point in worrying yourself and making yourself ill over it though.I'm very proud of you fighting that rescuer instinct and being prepared for an argument.We are all here to keep you strong and to listen if you need to rant.Take care xx

elantan

thanks taxi i have a feeling i will be taking you up on the rant idea...lol right meant to be at uni today but couldnt go in because of shoulder ...it has gotten progressively worse i can barely move it at all ...cant brush my hair or put on a bra even opening a door hurts ...so gonna go phone the dr again ...i have been ignoring it but i cant any more

elantan

I have been putting off the drs cause I reckon one of three things will happen ....1 I will get another cortisone injection I don't see how having a second one will work when the first made no difference at all....2 I will be given painkillers and anti inflammatrys painkillers only kill the pain they don't solve the problem and I kinda believe that when we feel pain our body is telling us something .... Anti inflammatrys damage the stomach I don't need any more problems ....3 I will be sent to physio for excercises .... I had downloaded excercises and have been doing them faithfully with no improvements so far .... So basically I am now in so much pain and my life has been so effected that I am getting desperate ...

hypno06

Get yourself down to that docs......you know we will nag you until you do (remember the knee.......):rolleyes:

elantan

hypno06 wrote: »

Get yourself down to that docs......you know we will nag you until you do (remember the knee.......):rolleyes:

That's the reason why I have kept quiet about it for so long lol...... Have got the drs on Monday

boredofbeingathome

OOh a nagging session...nag, nag, nag......you know we can keep it up!

elantan

i certainly know you can mrs ...hey bob have been thinking about you after i read your facebook ...you ok hun ? do you wanna me to give you a wee bell?

taxi73

Glad that you've made an appointment.If needs be ask for a referral to hospital to have it sorted.Hope you can become pain free soon as pain is so distracting.

boredofbeingathome

elantan wrote: »

i certainly know you can mrs ...hey bob have been thinking about you after i read your facebook ...you ok hun ? do you wanna me to give you a wee bell?

I am fine honest, but you can ring anytime:D

elantan

ok i am sitting here trying to get some stuff organised for mine and my business partners first what ever it is called (we cant decide) and i am looking up stress ...mmmm am i the right person to be helping others deal with stress i am wondering ?..i mean yes emotionally i am fine got it all sorted physically i am covered with cold sores and am shattered (although i am putting that down to lack of sleep due to shoulder) ...looked alternative stuff for shoulder as i dont really think the dr can help ...and i have discovered ...

it is most likely a frozen shoulder that i have which can take up to three years (according to some websites) to heal ...more females than males get them (that'll be me then) usually between the ages of 40-60 (37) diabetic (not as far as i know although i might have and wouldnt be surprised to find out i do) can be caused by autoimmune issues (not as far as i know although i might have) had a previous injury (2 car accidents) and can be painful (tell me about it)