Trying For a Baby III

scotsgirl_3

No puppies here, but I don't think I could have got through my MC without my kitties. Animals just provide so much comfort.

CAFCGirl

hi ladies....

tested again and still got a BFN, not sure what I was expecting, at least a BFP would have told me what is going on with my body....

had an absolute breakdown earlier and just sobbed for an hour because i just dont know whats going on with me...... before my mc and for a few months afterwards my cycles were really predicatable and then since march/april kinda time theyve just been so crazy and i dont know what to do.....

im upset about ovulation, bfn's, lack of sex drive (the mainstay for getting a BFP!) and just an overall feeling of failing every month, sorry to offload but i just feel so lost....

Caseyface

Caf ((((((hugs to you))))))

I probably don't have any words that will comfort you right now other than i'm sorry for what you're going through. You body seems to have been through the mill the past few months and is probably taking its toll mentally and physically so it's no wonder you feel a bit crap........if you felt like wonderwoman i'd be more worried

Just try to think positive thoughts and know everyone here will be here for you with our words of wisdom or total nonsense in my case haha

CAFCGirl

awww thanks Casey.....

I just feel like im not in control, and i always really struggle with that. At least if I had a name to put to it all, i could work out a coping strategy.....

anyway not to bore you all with my drivel, i think i just needed to offload...

becs

Oh Cafc huge hugs to you. You have really been through the mill so perhaps it's just your body's way of catching up. I'm so with you on the sex drive or rather lack of! Unfortunately mine is a side effect of the tumour so it is what it is and won't improve! I tell you when I do finally get to ov each month it's like a huge relief and then I get to have a couple of weeks off! :rotfl:Luckily dh is pretty much the same, well he has a bit more than me but never seems to be in the right half of the month funnily enough!

~BamNaggy~

G'dmorning lovely ladies :wave:

Hugs to those of you that need them, keep your chins up and keep going. You'll get to the otherside and a better place in the near future. :kisses3:

It's sunny here today...which I am pleased about. Perfect day to get the washing done and walk to work. I so need to lose 35lbs before getting PG... I already waddle enough without being pg.

Today is CD 1- First attempt ttc for DP and me. So the countdown begins.:j


Talking of dogs; I have three full grown, very active labradors. Gawd knows how we shall cope when we have a baby. I guess we will have to take turns to walk the dogs and we shall have to hoover twice a day instead of once a day to keep the pet hair down to a minimum for bubs.
However , those three doggies are currently my babies. As you say they are very comforting when you feel down and can easily make you laugh with their daft antics.


Twinkle: I hope you don't mind me asking, why are you not ttc anymore? Are you pregnant already or are waiting until a more convenient time.

Catwoman: I am sorry to hear about your poorly dog. x x

Everybody: I would just like to know how old you and your partners/hubbies are and how long have you been TTC? I am just been nosey really but it would be interesting to know. x x

I am 37 and my DP is 39 - as you may have gathered this month is our first month of TTC.

Anyways I am off to hoover before lunch. Have a great Sunday...enjoy the fresh air and sunshine.


Love Bam x x

~BamNaggy~

P.S I have also noticed I am starting to get a spotty chin since coming off the pill...grrrrrrrrr.:mad:

Penny35_2

Hugs CAFC...

Penny35_2

~BamNaggy~ wrote: »

G'dmorning lovely ladies :wave:


Everybody: I would just like to know how old you and your partners/hubbies are and how long have you been TTC? I am just been nosey really but it would be interesting to know. x x

I am 37 and my DP is 39 - as you may have gathered this month is our first month of TTC.

Hi Bam

We have only been trying a few months, I am 36 and my husband is 43..
xx

becs

Hi Bam,
I'm 36 (37 in January) and dh is 31. We got married april 07 and started trying immediately for a family but I did not have af for a year and was diagnosed in feb 08 with a pituitary tumour. Since then have been trying to get medication levels right which I think happened about 6 months ago so actually only feels like we've been trying 6 months most of the time!