Trying For a Baby III

VK-2008

help

I have been TTC for over 2 and a half years, kind of got bit confused this month,
my cycle is normally 31 days but for some reason i am on day 41 and it still has not came. not that i am complaining. but the confusing thing is i tested on day 31 got bfn and then on day 35 i got a bfp. when i went to check again its been bfn. now i am confused as i just dont no whats happening. i have been trying to get an appointment with my doctor so eventually got one for tomorrow. has this happened to anyone else
is this normal?
help please
a very confused ttc xxxxx
babydust to all

hassle1

sorry vk-2008 I can't really help you on this one.
Though I would say you only have to wait till tomorrow to see the doctor, so try and not worry.

smartie12

VK-2008 wrote: »

help

I have been TTC for over 2 and a half years, kind of got bit confused this month,
my cycle is normally 31 days but for some reason i am on day 41 and it still has not came. not that i am complaining. but the confusing thing is i tested on day 31 got bfn and then on day 35 i got a bfp. when i went to check again its been bfn. now i am confused as i just dont no whats happening. i have been trying to get an appointment with my doctor so eventually got one for tomorrow. has this happened to anyone else
is this normal?
help please
a very confused ttc xxxxx
babydust to all

Hi VK

Did you use the same brand preg test when you got bfn?? If not that's maybe why you got a bfn as it didn't pick up any hormone

Was your BFP a faint line or strong??

I had a faint positive then a BFN so put that down to a chemical pregnancy which can happen very early.

I hope you get an answer at the doctors

VK-2008

it started quite faint but then it got darker. i am just soo conufused. yeah i stuck to the same brand. i just dont no and im sooo confused. arrghh. just want things to got straight forward

and of course me and oh aint told anyone we are trying apart from docs so dont really know where to look for advice.

twinklie

Hey kids! I'm exhausted...school is tiring me out something chronic. I really need another holiday! ha ha. I know I'm only just back but blimey...how full on?

I really want to know whats happening with kenco as well. AND Gena. You were my cycle buddy so it's only fair you keep me posted lady!!!
((((hugs))))) to those that need them.

Gena

VK-2008 - sorry I can't answer but hope all goes well tomorrow.

Kmckee - sorry for your news, but try not to let it worry you. As someone else said I also know someone with pcos who also has 2 beautiful daughters so it is possible, and hopefully knowing about it may help.

Moneyangel - poor you, hope it gets sorted soon.

Can't remember much else sorry!
I had another faint line today, stronger than monday but still not what I'd call strong. I'm doing IC tests though - I had 10 (now got 5:o) so I can't bring myself to buy a digital (cheap skate;))! I checked in my diary from the last time I got pg (I expect it's sad to take notes) and I didn't get a strong line until nearly 2 weeks after AF was due, so I'm expecting the same now. Tbh I'm already considering myself as having my BFP, my tiredness/low enery/nausea is nearly as good as a strong line!:D

Love and babydust to all, glad to see everyone is more relaxed these days. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Gena

Arrggghh damn my confidence!! I've just been to the toilet and there's blood. Me and OH dtd earlier. Does anyone know if the blood could be a reaction to that (hopefully a normal reaction) ?? I'm really quite worried....

smartie12

Awwww Gena don't panic too much.

I do remember that happening when I was pg with DS (although it was a very long time ago!)

Gena

Thankyou Smartie, I know I shouldn't worry but that's pretty hard! It's good to know it can happen and not mean anything though. I've actually just rung a midwife! She said pretty much the same thing. I'm going to try and distract myself now.

kindofagilr

I have def heard of people bleeding once they have dtd when they are pg.

Congrats on your BP Gena I thought you had a TLP and I must have missed your BFP