Trying For a Baby III

Gena

Oh Catw0man I really don't know what to say, that is just so sad. I wish I could think of something constructive to write but I don't suppose it would make any difference anyway ... I really, really feel for you. Look after yourself honey. xxxx

**confuzzled**

Catw0man I'm so sorry ((((hugs)))) I've got nothing constructive to say I'm afraid xxxx

scotsgirl_3

Catwoman I am so so sorry. There's not much I can say really except I'm here if you want to talk x

redstararnie76

Catwoman, so sorry to hear your news. Sending lots of hugs to you.

Catw0man

Thanks all for your kind words of support, it's good to know I can 'speak' to people about this, how I'm feeling etc.
RIght now I am feeling numb, I really thought that this time everything would be ok, my hubby is trying not to give up hope completely, in the hope that I am just not as far on as expected, this will be confirmed next week, the midwife wasn't hopeful though. She did give me some hope for the future though, apparently 2 mc's in a row is not uncommon but 3 is very uncommon.

twinklie

Oh Catwoman, I'm so sorry. August is turning into a bit of a nightmare isn't it? I really wish there was something I could add to those great pearls of wisdom that the others have given. Alas, all I can say it look after yourself and keep that positivity that you clearly have. *hugs*

As for me, I did test and it was a bfn. Still no af though. Maddie? Have you got any better news?

snugglepants

Catw0man - I really, truly hope that your dates are wrong. I know this is going to be an anxious wait for you. I'm sending lots of hugs and dust your way, and praying you ovulated later than you thought. Whatever the outcome, we'll all be here for you.

Scotsgirl - I hope you're coping as well as you can. :grouphug: As I said before, we're all here for you.


Update on hubby - wasted day at hospital, left here 6:30am, got back 7pm, and he didn't have the surgery! Got to go back for 8am tomorrow in the hope he'll have it tomorrow. Needless to say, we're knackered! I've managed to do half the washing up and made my parents' anniversary cake (will be in the oven til nearly midnight :eek: But I can't guarantee when I could next have the chance to bake it, and their anniversary is 2 weeks monday anyway!! :eek:)

AF has gotten a bit heavier, lightish flow instead of spotting now.

scotsgirl_3

moneyangel22 wrote: »

can someone take a look at this please....my temps are all over the place! http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ttc/calendar_module.php?d=2009-08-08

On the page where you view your chart, there is a bit you can click for home page setup - click it and there is a different url which is specific to your chart - click on that and paste it in and i'll try to help. the link above isn't specific to your chart

Maddie

Catwoman, scotsgirl - thinking of you both although I can't empathise in any way. Mcs are definately very common - my mum had 4, and had to take medication to be able to carry to full term. Apparently one time they went on holiday and she didn't take them and miscarried - must have been awful.

Twinklie - no good news from here I'm afraid other than the fact AF hasn't kept me waiting. Last night I was going to the loo and said to OH that i was very tempted to test there and then (just got some ebay cheapy ones), decided that was silly and then AF arrived whilst i was on the loo. To be honest I found it quite funny.

I'm feeling positive about it though - would not have been perfect to have been pg as I'd been out a couple of night and had alcohol and have only just started taking folic acid everyday. I'm now determined to be ultra healthy so i'm 100% when I get the BFP.

Also decided not to start temping, OH said he had been looking forward to trying but I'm planning too much - so just going to try BDing as much as poss all the time!

twinklie

Awww...Maddie, at least you've taken it well!

Well I want to have AF visit by the time I wake up tomorrow or I'm expecting a bfp. Anything less and my toys will be well and truly out of the pram. Still, my new bathroom suite arrives tomorrow so AF better hurry up or I'll have to be sorting out my cup in the outside loo full of spiders!! Mooncup and spiders does not fill me with excitement! :eek: