A fresh start

buddiebabe

Hey

Yeah getting down to £20K would be great.... just don't forget i've a wedding to save for until September but am hoping that after the wedding i'll be able to pay more off the debt. Im going to be concentrating on trying not to increase my debt for the next few months.

Hope you've had a good day today

Buddiebabe x

Seaxwyn

I've just learned I am getting a 4.5% pay rise from January. :j

On the other hand, my train fare is going up by 7.9& :mad: Also I paid a £78 bill that OH had been stressing about. I had been leaving him to deal but got too stressed so I offered to pay.

beanielou

Good news on payrise.

Karmacat

The pay rise is good anyway, congratulations!

chevalier

nice pay rise, pants train rise. OH bill what would have been the worst that would have happened? Have you made an appointment for him yet?

taxi73

great news on pay rise

Seaxwyn

OH has an appointment next week with a service for helping long-term unemployed people find work. We did have a proper talk last night about the situation. Nothing that hadn't been said before but at least we were sitting together on the same sofa instead of me ranting while he walked out of the room. I raised the option of him moving out, he was very upset by this and I know I would not make him go, I strongly feel this would not be right.

I think his antidepressants may actually be making the situation worse by making him drowsy all the time. I want to get an appointment with the GP, but this will probably have to wait until I'm at home over Christmas as after three snow days, I don't think I can take any more time off this month.

Tomorrow I will pick up a few quid from paper rounds I have done this week, covering people who were snowed in or injured in snow-related mishaps.

beanielou

At the end of the day as you so rightly say you have to do what you feel is right.
No ifs no buts.

Sea78

Seaxwyn wrote: »

I think his antidepressants may actually be making the situation worse by making him drowsy all the time. I want to get an appointment with the GP, but this will probably have to wait until I'm at home over Christmas as after three snow days, I don't think I can take any more time off this month.

Mine made me sleepy - and *need* sleep much more. The doctor denied this. However, since I stopped taking them, I no longer just *have* to sleep or pass out. Funny that eh? However, the emtions have returned alongside the lows, although not as bad as they were ovbviously.

My docs is open some nights til 7 - maybe this would be the same for you? xxx

Savvy_sewing

Sea78 wrote: »

Mine made me sleepy - and *need* sleep much more. The doctor denied this. However, since I stopped taking them, I no longer just *have* to sleep or pass out. Funny that eh? However, the emtions have returned alongside the lows, although not as bad as they were ovbviously.

My docs is open some nights til 7 - maybe this would be the same for you? xxx

I cant take antidepressants anymore, as i was in bed all the time sleeping. Now that I have DGD to care for its just not an option!.
good luck with it all, I will be routing for you, mostly from the sidelines as I have the move and then the Guardianship and then the boys custody etc to be fighting for.! Its never dull in the mooloo life you know!.
Hugs