Partner pawned my dead nans ring without my permission

dotstar24

hi all. well he's still here and he's being extra attentive. will see how it goes. x

skylight

Think your mad.... But then I'm not the one in love with him nor am I pregnant (for a change!!)

I do hope things work out. As I have discovered over the years, for the majority of us there is no such thing as Mr. Right. Its Mr. Will-Have-To-Do instead. And now I understand totally why my Mum wanted so much better for me.

welshmoneylover

What a terrible time you are having.
He sounds a real low life and I hope your children don't turn out like him.
They need a better upbringing than to be surrounded by a druggie liar.
Take care x

honeyD

How you can let him sit and smoke that stuff around your child I do not know. He would be out the door if he was my partner. Total lack of respect for you, your child and your unborn child.

skintchick

skylight wrote: »

Think your mad.... But then I'm not the one in love with him nor am I pregnant (for a change!!)

I do hope things work out. As I have discovered over the years, for the majority of us there is no such thing as Mr. Right. Its Mr. Will-Have-To-Do instead. And now I understand totally why my Mum wanted so much better for me.

I totally disagree, I just think sometimes it takes a long time to find the right person.

I was single for nine years, from 23 to 32, and honestly had given up on every finding the right man, on getting married and on having children.

I felt I was going to be single for ever as all I could find was Mr OK, Mr All Right, and Mr Will do.

But I decided I'd rather be alone than with any of those men, and then suddenly fell in love with my OH, we were married 19 months after getting together, and now a year on from that our first baby is due any day!

If I'd settled for any of those OK men I wouldn;t be with my perfect man now, living the live I always dreamed of.

sometimes it takes a loooong time, but I do believe the right person is out there if we trust and wait.

jboy1972

Hi
Sorry to hear about your prob, but you cant let a drug adict, for thats what he is, ruin you, and your kids health and future.
Hash is a mind bending drug, i have seen its effects.
if he wont give it up you are putting your children as risk

we are told that smoking is bad for our kids never mind smoking drugs.

good luck

j

xmaslolly76

Suprising isnt it Dotstar im the same i am way better off on my own than with my partner they really do not support families like they should in this country.

As for the rest at 30ish he isnt a lad he should have grown up a long time ago especially with the kids involved does he smoke weed in the house ? personally if it was me i would walk away no trust no relationship end of story!!

dotstar24

Hi all just an update. well he's still here but I'm upstairs and he's down there smoking that cr ap/ i just blew my top at him and said i was sick of being poisoned by it. the more time goes on, the further i can feel myself drifting away from him. when he says he's gonna be late in or is popping to a friends house I'm almost relieved and enjoy the time i have on my own (LO is usually in bed).
I have such cr ap taste in men. sorry, just need to vent. x

*Louise*

Vent away - we are all on your side x

madrhino

Hi

I've just read this thread from the beginning.

It sounds as though you lost more than your nans ring when he did this to you. You don't sound as though you're happy with him anymore.

Also you told him to leave when he didn't come home to sort the mess out, but you let him stay. He may be feeling comfortable and confident that that was an empty threat, and he's in no danger.

I hope it all works out for you. Put yourself and DS waay before any considerations for him.

I am from a divorced family, my parents split up when I was 6. Sometimes it is better for parents to separate and get along and look after the childrens welfare, than for them to stay together when they argue or have an atmosphere between them.