Possibly splitting with OH over wanting children issue Update 25.07.09

lilmissmup

ailuro2 wrote: »

Never underestimate the power of that 'harmless' little plant....don't even consider comminucating with him till you know he's off it for good. IT wrecks the mind (as you have seen) but the people who smoke it see it as a harmless alternative to alcohol, but it's not harmless at all.:mad:

Hope you're feeling better today, start of a fresh new week, and of course the start of the rest of your life.:D

I saw him today to talk through some more money issues and he said he didn't feel that we had much in common anymore i.e his xbox and guitar playing and that he doesn't like socialising, silly things to me that i wasn't keen on his xbox but anyway!

He still hasn't smoked, i asked him if he would when he moved into his bedsit and well he said probably the occasional one but i know what that means.

I know its probably for the best but it doesn't stop it hurting and still lots of tears from us both today. Part of me wants to stay friends but not sure that will happen, at least we will communicate still anyway i think as neither of us hate each other!

We probably have grown apart even if I didn't notice it.