MONEY MORAL DILEMMA. Should Cilla give Graham a quick reminder for the date cash?

Andy4444_2

Well i guess Cilla should text him but my intuition tells me they will never see one another again , it sounds like its got to the stage where its simply not worth it anymore . If for sure would move on .

pineapple

I wouldn't expect him to mention it in the text anyway. The fact that he didn't does not mean he's a scam artist. Anyway we are only told that she isn't enamoured. Unless she actually detests the thought of seeing him again, I think she should meet to give it another go. It would also give him a chance to 'clear his debt'. But I half expect that he would do this by paying for this date upfront, not by handing her £20 which seems a bit clinical.
But if she truly doesn't want to see him again she should tell him - and certainly not demean herself by asking for the cash!

Andy4444_2

So if she (Cilla)isnt enamoured why all this thread ??just tell her to get on with her life as i am sure this Graham guy can live without her . Sounds like someone should pay heed to a old song "Know when to hold them , Know when to fold them" & just walk away NOW .

tallgirld

I would go another date with him if I never had anything better to do. He sounds cheap though!!!!

Andy4444_2

tallgirld wrote: »

I would go another date with him if I never had anything better to do. He sounds cheap though!!!!

Well tallgirl, how you can say he sounds cheap when the others on here are pimping her out by saying Graham has to pay up front & as the amount mentioned is £20 its not him that sounds cheap :rolleyes:

tryfive

OMG, I can't believe all the SEXIST !!!! here!

The guy forgot his wallet, she paid - GET OVER IT!

Why should HE have to pay anyway? Being fair, it was 40 quid for the two of them, so effectivly 20 quid each.
If she's chasing him for what is, in all fairness, 20 quid, I'd suggest he'd be wise to dump her ASAP...!

tryfive

tallgirld wrote: »

I would go another date with him if I never had anything better to do. He sounds cheap though!!!!

From the sounds of it (you'd only go out with him again if you had nothing better to do), you're inclined to only go out with guys who are paying for it.

And you think HE sounds cheap?!!

tryfive

MoMac wrote: »

Yes, of course she should! She could also tell the 'friend' who introduced them. £20 is too much to throw away.

If 20 quid is too much to throw away - what makes you think the poor guy can easily afford 40?

buxtonrabbitgreen

She doesn't particularly like him. She should just text and say "No thanks" maybe he will feel guilty and ask where to send his share of the bill.
Otherwise I agree forget it. We have all wasted £20 on something, sometime.

Redk_2

If she meets him for another date then she runs the risk of having to pay again for the pleasure, and if she's not that enamoured with him in the first place...I'd cut my losses and leave it. If she thought about it she would probably pay £40 not to have to go on a date with him again so it's no big deal if you look at it like that!

If he's dead keen, he'll no doubt text again and if he's wondering why she hasn't answered he may even remember he owes money and find a way to get it to her.

Chances are he won't remember and she won't get her money back...which leaves her with the decision of whether to be the bigger person and not mention it to her friend who set her up on the date, or dish the dirt and at least have a good moan about having to pay!