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Bumbling along to be Mortgage Free

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  • Kittikins
    Kittikins Posts: 5,335 Forumite
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    Wow! What a great way to end the day, £80 on free bingo, wooo hoo party time :) (or money cushion time, lol)
  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Congratulations!
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

    Progress not Perfection
  • Yeh way to go on the £80...do I get commission???:rotfl:

    As one who suffers from depression can I ask why you are so anty going back on the tablets? I only ask as for years I didn't want to take them, however I have realised that they make me feel on a 'better level', i've got to the stage where I don't care as long as i'm well.

    TPAxxxx
    MFW - We've only gone and blooming done it!
    May 2013:j
  • Courgette
    Courgette Posts: 3,242 Forumite
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    Hi Michelle,

    I've suffered from depression in the past and I still have a tendency to get very low if I'm tired. I understand your reluctance to take ADs though as I'm of the same mindset, as illogical as it may seem to others. What I find really helps, and I'm really not making light of anything here, is that I get enough sleep and that I do some exercise. Life with two little uns is very demanding and it drains a lot out of you and you need to be selfish sometimes and make sure your energy is being replaced.

    That said, my mum has long term mental health issues (manic depression) and when she finally cracked it with the right medication about 3 years ago her life was transformed. Far better to spend a few quid a month on prescription charges than live in a permanent fog.

    Look after yourself xxx
    Updating soon...
  • WTG on the bingo! Very wise to get out while the going's good.

    courgett wise words on depression.

    Hope you had a good day today, Michelle now the sun is back.
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • SAHMto2boys
    SAHMto2boys Posts: 181 Forumite
    Hi Michelle

    I've changed my user name due to family stalking but bet you can guess who I used to be - long time no speak. Thanks for commenting on my little ones picture the other day ;), surprised you didn't know but have been keeping a low profile on here and Facebook till then. He's 5 months now and a beauty! Would appreciate it if you could keep shum about my ID :silenced::o

    Just been reading through your thread and you are doing amazing! I've just started a diary on the DFW but hopefully a couple of months and I can change it to and MFW diary.

    You cope really well with your two on your own so much, I realise that I'm really lucky in the help I get so I think I need to get a grip and stop moaning about it. My older DS is at pre-school every morning and must admit its a bit of a life saver for me, I'm so much better with him and have more time and patience with having that break from him. I don't have so many bad mummy thoughts now. When does your DS start or are you not sending him?

    I know so much what you mean about how your feeling, I've had a head cold for about 2 weeks and only just feel like a human again. I've just decided to cut down on booze and sugar and its made a massive difference to how I feel - I'm less of a shoutie mummy now.

    Anyway, will be reading with interest and hopefully can keep commenting but really think you need to give yourself a big pat on the back!!

    Xxx
    Trying to do one positive thing (however how small) per day to be mortgage free/reduced and be frugal but still enjoy life!
    Debt LBM Feb 2010 = £7841.97/ now £0, MFW 2011 = £9k in savings
    MFW target 2012 to save £11,000 for Over Payments/fill ISA's and reduce lots of things - outgoings, alcohol, waste, weight
  • SAHMto2boys
    SAHMto2boys Posts: 181 Forumite
    Oh and yay on all the house work. Yes it will be a pain having it done but it will be so worth it when you're finished - just think about having a lovely hot bath in your new room - bliss! And I've been sending good thoughts out there about your dad, hope it all comes to nothing xx
    Trying to do one positive thing (however how small) per day to be mortgage free/reduced and be frugal but still enjoy life!
    Debt LBM Feb 2010 = £7841.97/ now £0, MFW 2011 = £9k in savings
    MFW target 2012 to save £11,000 for Over Payments/fill ISA's and reduce lots of things - outgoings, alcohol, waste, weight
  • SmlSave
    SmlSave Posts: 4,911 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hey Michelle, see if you can find some time to breathe too, ok?

    lots of luv and hugs
    Currently studying for a Diploma - wish me luck :)

    Phase 1 - Emergency Fund - Complete :j
    Phase 2 - £20,000 Mortgage Fund - Underway
  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Michelle, don't push yourself too hard, you are doing great!
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

    Progress not Perfection
  • Tesco_points_addict
    Tesco_points_addict Posts: 3,242 Forumite
    edited 18 May 2010 at 8:02PM
    cha, I feel exhausted just reading what you do in a day! Isn't it funny how the busiest of people seem to think they are not very productive..you deserve a big pat on the back.
    You are amazing


    TPAx
    MFW - We've only gone and blooming done it!
    May 2013:j
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