Weekly Flylady Thread 15th June 2009

feefeelalabelle

rosepink1984 wrote: »

I've done a very bad job cooking dinner. I'm doing a burmese dish, where the main ingredient is soy sauce and we only had dried lemon grass and I put too much in so now it looks like chicken in a black sauce with loads of straw in it. Yum. Not. And I couldn't find one of the spices so have only just put that in now as DH returned my message to tell me where it is. I've now put it in the spices cupboard!

DH is really silly and has quite annoyed me tonight. He goes out to see a friend on Wednesday nights, but often cancels. Tonight he really should go to see this man, but he's been working late again, even tho he has nothing booked in for the next 2 days and could go and do what he couldn't finish tomorrow or Friday as it's only a job for his dad. But no, he's worked so late today that now he has to let his friend down again. I was not impressed, I really wish he would prioritise.
It didn't help that I was really down yesterday (still am today TBH) and he came home and ignored me all evening. He's obsessed with a computer game and came home and went straight on it and hardly spoke all evening, even tho he knew I was really low. He didn't even give me a hug until I asked for one at 11pm, after a long wait hoping he would give me one without having to ask.

I know he needs some relaxation after a long day at work, and I don't begrudge that, but I do object to being ignored all evening when I've been alone all day.

Sorry to moan, I will shut up now

ETA: Hugs Vanilla and Lil_me

you know thats exactly how i feel at the minute, im sure they think we are just robots who just cook clean and run on battries, ive had really bad 2 or 3 days and its just unbelievable how selfish they can be sometimes. gggrrrrrrrr:D

Mrs_Beatson

I'll almost done re the housework (or do I mean "done in"? :rotfl:)
The only thing left to do is the ironing... OH at work tonight and kids will be in bed by 8pm... so can anyone think of a really good reason why I shouldn't do the ironing?????:rotfl:

I have TONS of it and I know if I get it done tonight then I will be all up-to-date with the washing (QUITE the achievement in this house, I can tell you!!!) but ohhhhhh I just don't want to.

kick up the ar8e required...

carlsberggal

Soappie - TMC was ace- forgot how carp blacklace were, made me laugh out loud!!

Have de-cluttered tea- we were gluttons as myself & DH have devoured a whole small gammon joint with loads of veggies - feel quite sick now!
Loaded dw

Going to put pjays on and slob in front of the tv I'm afraid this evening, I'm kn£ckered today and elbow killing xx

funfairprincess

Hi flyers

I have just s/s the kitchen and bathroom. The kitchen is sparkling ready for me to muck it up baking tomorrow.
I am doing 1 more load of washing and drying that will be 4 or is it 5 ?? today then I'm quitting and doing some study before Toots is after my blood.

Cuppa tea and some nicotine needed then I'm back to it.

I'll see you all in the morning sleep well.


P.S forums down again on Friday whats that all about? The last time they were down I had to because I had a gun at my head go to facebook and I haven't been off it since (giving Lady-L the blame she showed me farm town and bejewled!!!!!!!)


ETA Soappie your so that was brilliant listening to wigwambam now. You've got to love blacklace they are so bad they are good!

milliejo

as not sure how much time I will have tomorrow I decided to tackle the worst looking part of the house while DH & DS are out so I have done the main bathroom & spare bedroom rather than todays list so I can just do a level 1 job on the lounge etc tomorrow

feefeelalabelle

how on earth do ido the multi quote thing??? please
anyway just a quick update to see my progress and hupefully spur me on cos at this minute in time OH is annoying the f**K out of me (lanuage,,,sorry) hes just wtching DD eat her felt tips , i have the worst headache in the world and could scratch my eyes out for some strange reason x
Wednesday Whizz! ~ Living room, hall and stairs!
Level One
[STRIKE]Declutter the floors[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]Declutter the flat surfaces.. even if you scoop it all into a box to deal with later![/STRIKE]
Level Two
[STRIKE]Vacuum the floors, stairs and[/STRIKE] sofas etc
Wipe any marks off the sofas
[STRIKE]Dust and deweb![/STRIKE]
Level Three
[STRIKE]Polish any glass/ornaments/electricals etc[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]Vacuum under the furniture you can safely move[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]Wipe and water any plants[/STRIKE]
Extras

1. [STRIKE]Wash any soft furnishings that are grubby[/STRIKE]
2. Wipe the paintwork over
3. 15 minutes filing
4. Sort through the box/bag you chucked your 'decluttering' into!!!

just looked around the room and its in a worse state now than it was earlier!
took 3 bags of rubbish to the tip
been to post office
s&s kitchen
done pots 2x
washed work clothes
made important phonecall

gunsandbanjos

feefeelalabelle wrote: »

how on earth do ido the multi quote thing??? please

When you are reading the thread there is a little new button beside the regular quote button, click on it in when you want to quote someone and it will turn red. When you then click reply all the messages you have clicked the multiquotes button on will appear in your reply box. Hope that makes sense.

Penelope_Penguin

soappie wrote: »

I couldn't possibly divulge on such an open forum!

Well, believe it or believe it not, I have loads of space in my PM box

I enjoyed the TMC :T I met DD and 2 of her friends on my way home, and they revealed that as DD has a reputation for being laid back in gettting between lessons, they would speed her up with the theme to Benny Hill. She's never seen the footage that goes with it, so for the next TMC can we have this, please

Penny. x

lil_me

Penny you are ever so nosey :rotfl: well done with the good deed by the way, many would just walk by
vanilla ((hugs)) rosepink ((hugs))

My first ever single (vinyl) was AGADOO!!! :rotfl:

Well this is odd, DP sort of helped DS1 do his room (I have to do the clothes as he doesn't know how to put them away?) he only shouted twice when DS1 started screaming which he does when protesting, then made DS2s bed and sort of vacuumed his room.....now he's took the dog out as he said he can't do any more housework because his ankle hurts.....rather odd I do wonder if he read that or seen the steam coming out of my ears! Anyway greatful of what he has done, he never usually walks the dog so that is double odd. Utility has been scrubbed on hands and knees, all appliances cleaned, it sparkles!

Suppose I should go put DS1s clothes away, which have been away once then he dragged them out, then I will dust/vacuum his room

gratefulforhelp_2

Hi all. No flying again, but hugs for rosepink and anyone else who has husband-taking-for-granted issues. Men and women just don't think the same, though of course that's no excuse!