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Weekly Flylady Thread 15th June 2009

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  • carlsberggal
    carlsberggal Posts: 993 Forumite
    lil_me - doesn't get any better the older they get I'm afraid, DD1 is 19 and a lazy ar5e when she wants. Her pit - I mean her bedroom can be a disgrace then she has a sudden blitz and it's immaculate , she always says when I comment:

    "Mum, you know you taught me how to clean really well and I can do it, but only when I want to!"

    I just leave her door shut now and ignore it. She once left the ironing board and iron up in the kitchen, I managed to leave it there a week without blowing my top and she put it away. Kind of blew her mind that I didn't go crazy as I can be very an£l about mess and clutter.

    Today I've:

    sent letter to DH army pension for up to date statement
    s/s kitchen
    Aired and made bed
    showered and got ready for work
    Came home mid afternoon (out doing a house viewing at the time so took an extra 5 mins!) to put gammon joint in the oven
    Peeled veg
    Put garlic kievs and potato wedges in oven for DD1 and BF as she won't have gammon

    Hope everyone well x
    To love and be loved is the greatest happiness of existance - Sydney Smith
  • vanilla
    vanilla Posts: 3,277 Forumite
    Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room
    Level Two
    Wash windows

    Extras
    1. Thoroughly clean the undersink cupboard
    2. clean the paintwork
    3. Wipe the inside doors.. inside.. and out!!
    Tuesday thrills - Master bedroom and landing
    Level Two
    Clear the floor on the landing
    Level Three
    Vacuum the cleared floors!


    Wednesday Whizz! ~ Living room, hall and stairs!
    Level One
    Declutter the floors
    Declutter the flat surfaces.. even if you scoop it all into a box to deal with later!
    Level Two
    Vacuum the floors, stairs and sofas etc
    Wipe any marks off the sofas
    Dust and deweb!
    Level Three
    Polish any glass/ornaments/electricals etc
    Vacuum under the furniture you can safely move
    Wipe and water any plants
    Extras
    1. Wash any soft furnishings that are grubby
    2. Wipe the paintwork over
    3. 15 minutes filing
    Still got loads to do. Managed to get DD's new special shoes today and they look really good so she is chuffed. DS2 got his glasses so thats him happy.
    Rant alert
    Complete muck up at the chemist as for some reason the gp sent a script down for hubby but put twice the dose down, so the fella rang the gp who said go a head with it. (shocked)
    Hubby told him that the dose was increased but not by that much. So they have to contact the other doctor before they will give the meds. Add that to hubby already not being well and the way his thinking is at the minute and it's just a load of stress.
    I'm really starting to stuggle with it all to be honest. Hubby, kids, appointments, sorting the car and just being so run down myself.
    Rant over

    Right better start the livingroom and sort the kiddies out then get them to bed. Hubby's out tonight so think i'll get as much done as i can.
    Sometimes it seems that the going is just too rough.
    And things go wrong no matter what I do.
    Now and then it seems that life is just too much.
    But you've got the love I need to see me through.
    :j :j
  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    I've done a very bad job cooking dinner. I'm doing a burmese dish, where the main ingredient is soy sauce and we only had dried lemon grass and I put too much in so now it looks like chicken in a black sauce with loads of straw in it. Yum. Not. And I couldn't find one of the spices so have only just put that in now as DH returned my message to tell me where it is. I've now put it in the spices cupboard!

    DH is really silly and has quite annoyed me tonight. He goes out to see a friend on Wednesday nights, but often cancels. Tonight he really should go to see this man, but he's been working late again, even tho he has nothing booked in for the next 2 days and could go and do what he couldn't finish tomorrow or Friday as it's only a job for his dad. But no, he's worked so late today that now he has to let his friend down again. I was not impressed, I really wish he would prioritise.
    It didn't help that I was really down yesterday (still am today TBH) and he came home and ignored me all evening. He's obsessed with a computer game and came home and went straight on it and hardly spoke all evening, even tho he knew I was really low. He didn't even give me a hug until I asked for one at 11pm, after a long wait hoping he would give me one without having to ask.

    I know he needs some relaxation after a long day at work, and I don't begrudge that, but I do object to being ignored all evening when I've been alone all day.

    Sorry to moan, I will shut up now

    ETA: Hugs Vanilla and Lil_me
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
    Sealed pot challenge no.576 Loose change pays your debt challenge #2 no.1 Wannabe flylady
    Weight lost since 9 June 2009: [STRIKE]5.5[/STRIKE] 6 lbs
  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    I think it's time to do the two-minute conga to cheer ourselves up! Soappie, care to organize it, I believe it was your suggestion?
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
    Sealed pot challenge no.576 Loose change pays your debt challenge #2 no.1 Wannabe flylady
    Weight lost since 9 June 2009: [STRIKE]5.5[/STRIKE] 6 lbs
  • Penelope_Penguin
    Penelope_Penguin Posts: 17,242 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    soappie wrote: »
    Have been up for ages but have been snooping online.The ex-wife of my sister's fiance is a slightly famous authoress.

    How exciting - do tell who she is ;)

    Hope everyone has a productive day - I think I might have to be cracking the whip a bit more

    Oooerr missis :eek: :rotfl:
    cally_c wrote: »
    DD is doing her last GCSE exam as we speak, she seems much more chilled now & is looking for a summer job. It's her prom on Friday.

    :T:T:T My DD finishes tomorrow, and I can't wait :j

    Sorry, just trying out the multi-quote toy :p;)

    Just got in from work. I came across a man who was extremely drunk, and wandering into the road, so stopped and called an ambulance (thought they sent 2 police vans :rolleyes: ). Thankfully, 2 other people stopped to give me moral support :o

    Off to get my list, then I'll probably have a HHC afetr supper when the children have gone to Explorer Scouts :beer:

    Penny. x
    :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
  • Penelope_Penguin
    Penelope_Penguin Posts: 17,242 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room
    Level One - done :j
    [STRIKE]Clear and wipe worksurfaces
    [/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Scrub down the front of units and large appliances and kickboards
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Wipe and replace small appliances
    [/STRIKE]
    Clean out the gruesome fridge
    [STRIKE]Wash windows
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three - done :j
    [STRIKE]Wipe the table and chairs... clean cloth if necessary
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Clean the oven and hob[/STRIKE]


    Extras
    1. Thoroughly clean the undersink cupboard
    2. dust and deweb
    3. Wipe the inside doors.. inside.. and out!!
    Tuesday thrills - Master bedroom and landing
    Level One - done :j
    Level Two
    Clear the floordrobe
    [STRIKE]Clear the floor on the landing
    Wash the windows
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three - done :j
    [STRIKE]Vacuum the cleared floors!
    Dust and deweb.. don't forget the bed frame and light fitting
    Wipe the paintwork

    [/STRIKE]
    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. fill a box with gibble and put it all in its proper home
    3. send 5 things to charity shop
    Wednesday Whizz! ~ Living room, hall and stairs! ALL DONE :j
    Level One - done :j
    Level Two - done
    [STRIKE]Vacuum the floors, stairs and sofas etc
    [/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Wipe any marks off the sofas
    Dust and deweb![/STRIKE]
    Level Three - done :j[STRIKE]
    Polish any glass/ornaments/electricals etc
    Vacuum under the furniture you can safely move
    Wipe and water any plants

    [/STRIKE]
    Extras
    1. 15 minutes filing
    2. Sort through the box/bag you chucked your 'decluttering' into!!!
    :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Evening all

    Still haven't quite got to the flying today yet.

    Going to tidy up from dinner
    Finish kitchen
    Make a cake
    Pick the strawberries
    Clean the cloakroom
    Get DS3 to bed

    In that order - I wonder at which point I'll decide it is time to say hi to Rose?
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room
    Level One

    Level Two
    Wash windows
    Level Three
    Clean the oven and hob
    Extras
    1. Thoroughly clean the undersink cupboard
    2. dust and deweb
    3. clean the paintwork
    Tuesday thrills - Master bedroom and landing :j
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Extras
    1. HHI
    Wednesday Whizz! ~ Living room, hall and stairs!
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Polish any glass/ornaments/electricals etc
    Vacuum under the furniture you can safely move
    Extras
    1. Wash any soft furnishings that are grubby
    2. Wipe the paintwork over
    Hi everyone, sorry i haven't posted prior to today between work and home stresses i've not had a chance to sit at the pc - tbh i've kept myself, puppy and my niece out of the house as much as possible but she has homework to do tonight so we have to stay in. I'm being amazingly anti-social and staying in my room only popping out as and when she calls for some help. Very adult like way of dealing with things but i'm currently ignoring the rest of the family because they're doing my head in so the only way to avoid them talking to me is to stay out of the way :o

    Going to go through my toiletries and chuck out anything that has been opened and not used in a while. Also have rehomed the 12 bottles of unopened fake tan i have to the daughter of one of my colleagues so must remember to put them in a bag tonight or i'll no doubt forget them in the morning!

    Hope everyone is well, sorry haven't had a chance to catch up but big hugs and lots of *necessary vibes* as and where needed xx
  • soappie
    soappie Posts: 6,794 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    How exciting - do tell who she is ;)

    I couldn't possibly divulge on such an open forum!
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • soappie
    soappie Posts: 6,794 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    RoseP has requested a TMC

    Here goes - everyone ready?

    It's actually 3 mins 8 secs long but what the heck...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0V6N4elMVX4
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
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