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A new start for Mooloo
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Hugs Mooloo -hope you have a quiet weekend.
Try not to be hard on yourself for the choices you have had to make. Your body is providing you with the proof that you did the only thing you could do. If you had left things any longer you wouldnt have been able to care for anyone.JAN GC- £155.77 out of £200FEB GC £197.31 out of £180:o. MARCH GC - out of £200
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Mooloo, just sending you our love. Take care.0
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Good heavens Mooloo, have just caught up on the truly heartbreaking week you have had. I am so very sorry. I always feared it would come to this sort of ending, as I have seen it so often when I was healthvisiting: support not given to young mums by SS resulting in children going into temporary or permanent care. You have done so well to get this far and you will still be there for your children and grandchildren in the future-providing you now take great care of yourself.I am very relieved that you are getting legal advice and support now, as it seems to me that this useless crew of social workers that are dealing with you will just cut every corner they can and take advantage at every oppurtunity. Having a solicitor or legal exec on board will put them on notice that they should now play by the rules! They should be ashamed of themselves. I am sure your 2 grandsons are in good loving hands, and once you have seen them there you will be reassured I am sure. God bless you Mooloo-I feel truly humbled by you, I really do.Tomorrow is always fresh, with no mistakes in it!0
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Gee Mooloo, I am sooo sorry that you were even put in the situation were you had to make this decision. I I I I am quite frankly speechless. :silenced: Take care of yourself mentally and physically. :A :grouphug:0
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Thinking of you Mooloo.Hope you can all get the help you need and deserveEvery day above ground is a good one0
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Evening already.
Its been an emotional weekend, but unfortunately I have run out of patience with twn2 and I lost my temper wth her when she went off on "holiday" with the suddenly new fiance!!! I told her I had finished with her, and I no longer had twins!. I was the most awful thing for me to say, but emotions were running high, and I could not see how she could just upsticks and go away now of all times?
Twin1 is off tomorrow as she gets her new little house, or at least I think that I do.
But DGD and I are not going to be very happy. The two of them have been getting on very well, and this weekend when My BF came along to visit, he said he could see the better bond between them, and he thinks that now that DGD can talk she can tell her mum what she wants, and so Mum doesnt have to guess what is needed. He has a big point there.
I am tired. I had an awful night on Friday, not sleeping well etc, yesterday I tried to keep busy, a at lunchtme I watched the F1 qualifying. Then BF came and in the evening we went to the little village pub for a drink and we talked alot. He has been very supportive this time around, and he and twin1 got on quite well too. He always gets on with DGD, she gave him huge hugs when he arrived. Waved him good by when he left this afternoon.
I have some good news. I went to collect DS from Leighton Buzzard, and he has decided that he wants to come back home. Well not necessarily at mine, he may stop at twin2's to keep an eye on the place, then help her when she gets back, while he looks for an apprenticeship. I want to jump for joy that he is going to come back in this direction.
Tonight there is DGD, twin1 and DS under my roof with me tonight. Yipee
I have to look for the good things as when I think of the boys, I just want to cry.When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.0 -
Good news about your ds , it will be nice to have him close!
As for twin2 only time will tell wont it?. It is totally understandable to be angry with her as she has put you through the emotional mill these past weeks, even a saint wouldnt be able to keep their cool!
Take each day as it comes and as I said before dont be hard on your self. You , as always, are doing the very best you can.JAN GC- £155.77 out of £200FEB GC £197.31 out of £180:o. MARCH GC - out of £200
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Good to read you had a pleasant Saturday with your BF, just what you needed - some Mooloo time.
It may be that Twin2 because of her LD is not able to care about her boys, rather than chooses not to. If that's the case, then she may always put her needs before theirs as she's unable to understand why that's wrong. Just a thought.
Good to hear DS is at last 'coming round', now he's closer to you you'll be able to give him some emotional support and loving advice. Not that he'll take the advice, but he'll hear it IYSWIM.
Enjoy your Sunday evening......................I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
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I wonder what DS 2 thinks of all of the goings on with the twins for the last couple of days? Do you think that it has shocked him into the realism that he must do something constructive with his life? He is fit, of able body and mind and it is time that he put his mind to it and decided on a suitable career for himself.0
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i am wondering if twin 2 will be able to stay in her home without the children living with her?
it all must be awful for you. can you send the boys little presents, have they said if you can visit?0
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