A new start for Mooloo

Keeping_Motivated

Mooloo you had no choice, there was no decision to be made really as you just cannot look after 3 children under 3!

Does twin2 seem upset or affected at all?

Savvy_sewing

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

Mooloo you had no choice, there was no decision to be made really as you just cannot look after 3 children under 3!

Does twin2 seem upset or affected at all?

I havent seen her, she was very upset yesterday, when I managed to visit, after kids in bed and DS and twin1 stayedin.
But today she is still talking of needing a holiday. (well I need one two, but she was willing to leave them with me and still go away, knowing that I was in a mess!. )
I was about to ring her to say they have gone now.

Errata

You must be incredibly saddened that this has happened, even though you know that just now it's for the best and in the best interests of the boys.
It's concerning that Twin 2 is turning down the opportunity to see them and perhaps does not bode well for their return to her at some point in the future. I'm sure there will be many, many opportunities for you to visit them and be reassured that they are being well cared for and faring well.
My thoughts are with you.

shaz_mum_of__2

Its hard at the minute but one day you will see that this was the best thing for you at the time , if you don't take care of you who else will??

Shaz

Keeping_Motivated

Was anything explained to DGS? Its seems with twin2's difficulties she is seeing this as an opportunity for a break rather than understanding the bomb that has just gone off and the ramifications of the aftermath plus the effect it will have on the children especially the oldest boy.

Molly41

So sorry that this has happened - I can understand that you must be absolutely gutted. You are really tired and really need to rest and sleep. Im pleased that you will be able to visit xx

Savvy_sewing

The oldest boy, is not easy to explain to. Unlike DGD his speach etc is barely comprehensable.
I did say he was going away on a little "holiday" wth some nice people. He let me put him in the car seat fine, and he waved good by ok, becuase he likes driving in cars. But what he will be like to handle for the poor foster parents I do not know.

I do not thing twin2 is thinking of the boys. I think she is just thinking about the new boyfriend.
She said she doesnt know what she signed. Signed 4 pieces of paper, asked for copies but they said they didnt have any to give her?
I forgot to ask forthem too.
I have made her send me the details of where they are going too. the text has jst come through now.
I also told her a few other things but thats beside the point! I was not nasty but I was firm. I told her i didnt agree, and I told her that I didnt understand her turning down a chance to see them etc. etc.
Just do not understand her at the moment.

Savvy_sewing

Molly41 wrote: »

So sorry that this has happened - I can understand that you must be absolutely gutted. You are really tired and really need to rest and sleep. Im pleased that you will be able to visit xx

Molly you know me now. You were here when I made the call to tell SS that I was not able to do this.
Twin1 saw me, and DS, last night when I was nearly crippled with the pain, before I went to bed.
had to rely on Twin1 to take care of the babies final feed as I was so bad!
Irony there isnt there. Twin1 has been so good with all three kids, but it was also too much for her. She is moving out on Monday and I will miss her, as will DGD. Its a sad week in the Mooloo household that is for sure.:(

Jacqu79

Mooloo, I've been following your thread since the start, but never posted as I didn't have anything helpful to say. I still don't but I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you and feel so sad for the situation you're in.:(

I hope things change for the better for you and your family soon.x

queen_of_string

Sad yes, but a success too. You told SS to ge their act together and they did. That's a victory, though a sad one in this case. I'm really pleased you will have access Thursday, time to just be loving grandma hopefully.