A new start for Mooloo

floss2

P.S. please talk to the Doctor about all this stress and take up any offer of counselling to help you sort all the things in your head into their rightful places.

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granmadelighted

hi mooloo i havent posted before but wanted to send you a big hug. i think you are a wonderful mum and granny and you have done your very best for your family.
as a mum to three grownup children ,2 of whom are dyspraxic, and dyslexic i understand what you are going through although my 2boys dont have children and they have got jobs they still struggle but they are wonderful boys., as a nanny to a gorgeous three year old boy and with health problems of my owni know
how you must be torn apart by all this .
sending you all my best wishes and im gonna pray for your family too
look after yourself mooloo as you are a very special star.:)

Savvy_sewing

I have been made bankrupt before. I am not allowed to go bankrupt again.
I will work on clearing the debts. But it will take time.
I just cannot see the wood for the trees today.
I have asked for councilling, I was at the doctors earlier in the week.

Re the utilities I did try asking when the family left me with the bills from the big house. I was not eligeable.

Problem is I never seem to be eligeable for anything. Maybe oneday my bus pass! If i live that long.

Sorry I am coming over a bit down.

Just had a call from Biggest of Mooloo, she is on the way into see the doctors and was killing some time. She too has had a rough night, and as I feared, the BF is having second thoughts as to them being able to afford to do this, and that it will impact on thier future plans. So it may not be all plain sailing.
There is a lot to discuss as I said, and they have to be sure that it is indeed the right thing for them to do. Obviously his responses will also be taken into account. So we are along way from getting this sorted out.
Meanwhile DGD and I are here together in the cottage, and everyone needs hugs, and support!

Right DGd is playing with a pile of empty shoe boxes and having a ball building walls, I have done some with her inbetween posts, but I better help her now.

thanks for reading and all the imput.
Mooloo x

Molly41

Sorry my PM box was full. I have cleared it now! Well its sunny here now so snow is clearing so should be ok to get out and about. Hope you can get to oxford as hopefully bf might be ble to physically support you and give you the hug you desperately need. i know we can send virtual ones but not quite the same. Hopefully get together for cuppa and natter next week x

Savvy_sewing

Right, Its time to get us moving properly. Get the bags packed. Looks like the roads are clear enough for us to go to Oxford.
I will take all the good wishes with us. And hopefully I will relax a bit more. Discuss things with my BF, although he very rarely comments.
What ever I do, I have to pull myself together and be careful for DGD.
We have to keep an even keel for her.

Have a good weekend everyone. I will probably not come on until I get back on Sunday. Think I need to switch off for a few days.

Best wishes to all who are not feeling too well, and those with teenage problems. Together we will all surmount them!

Mooloo xx

peppa-pig

Mooloo wrote: »

I have been made bankrupt before. I am not allowed to go bankrupt again.
Mooloo x

Who says you are not allowed to go bankrupt again? You can go BR again but you may get a BRO/U against you but in the grand scheme of things that really doesn't mean all that much.

Please get some advice on this. You may be eligible for a DRO which is less money to do than BR though has quite a few requirements in order to do one.

If you can start debt free maybe you can stay in the cottage and not have to face moving again.

Please come across to the Bankruptcy board where someone will be able to offer you some more help.

bertiebots

Just caught up from yesterday Mooloo and wanted ,like everyone else, to send you a hug. You have so much on your plate at the moment that I hope you can relax a little over the weekend .
I am not suprised biggest mooloo's bf is concerned (huge thing taking on dgd)and its good that he is being honest, something that everyone needs to be at a time like this isn't it. I am sure that somehow you will all find a solution to this situation as you sound such a level headed woman.
Take care of yourself x.

oystercatcher

Just sending love and hugs to you Mooloo. I'm not sure how I would cope in your shoes. I hope the spiral turns upwards for you soon.

If you do end up having to relocate it might be worth trying to get everyone a bit closer, ideally in the same town so you can give support without too many travelling expenses and time. My worry would be that then you may be expected to do more by family and SS. At least if you could retreat to your own place it's better than sharing with the youngsters I'm sure you and all grandchildren would benefit from regular short visits.
It concerns me that they won't fund a bedroom for DS as I feel that at that age and the way he is he could easily need to return home My son of that age is definitely a combination of child/adult and I wouldn't like to think of him with nowhere to return to but it seems they give you no choice.
There's no easy answers. I really feel for you.

Hardup_Hester

Hi Mooloo
My Bil has gone bankups twice & his wife 3 times, so I would double check the information you have re your bankrupcy.
Hugs Hester

travelgran

As I understand the kinship fostering allowance regulations are particularly complicated. If the money is important I'd check them out very carefully before formally agreeing to anything. Only hearsay but someone I know apparently missed out because the family signed an agreement beforehand and couldn't claim afterwards. Very unfair.