Marathons, Money and Motivation

Purpleroses

Afternoon Caf et al.

glad you are feeling better! Just popping by to say hello. Am off to New York on a work trip. Shame we're not there at the same time i'd have bought you a starbucks and given you a hug! (lol bet your thinking thank goodness we're not there at the same time!)

Hope you have a good week! xx

CAFCGirl

awww starbucks in nyc reminds me of my wedding day (thats where we we went for our wedding dinner LOL hot choc and a donut by city hall.....

ive just our information to payplan to look into a dmp..... figured its a constructive step to take, and if we get one, it will take a lot of weight off

doodledo_2

Good news on the DMP hun, I really do think it would be a positive step forward for you

starnac

CAFCGirl wrote: »

lol NOW i get it.....

they are the people who dont HAVE to do it in the present... you know the type, the do gooders who tell you how easy something is because theyve been doing it for years, and make you feel pants because you're still sat on your backside doing nothing.....

I recommend the following to anyone
100 things in 1001 days.... my friend i was chatting to last night (thanks Lynz) sent the link to me and its amazing... im stuck on around number 60 for my list...

"they've" got nothing better to do than give out advice obviously

what's the 100 things in 1001 days?

CAFCGirl

its basically a list

You all know how I love my lists

Its 100 things to achieve in 1001 days...you get to make a blog about it and everything.... it was really good to write it, gave me a sense of direction.

Had a difficult chat with boss earlier,just about where my heads at, what i want to do in life and basically told him about our plans. Its a strange relationship we have so I didnt feel guilty for telling him, but i know he's hurt that I feel in order to grow and heal, that I need to change location etc, but essentially he's really supportive and is going to help me out for the next few months with some new skill sets and life coaching to help me achieve my 100

clearmydebts

CAFCGirl wrote: »

its basically a list

You all know how I love my lists

Its 100 things to achieve in 1001 days...you get to make a blog about it and everything.... it was really good to write it, gave me a sense of direction.

Had a difficult chat with boss earlier,just about where my heads at, what i want to do in life and basically told him about our plans. Its a strange relationship we have so I didnt feel guilty for telling him, but i know he's hurt that I feel in order to grow and heal, that I need to change location etc, but essentially he's really supportive and is going to help me out for the next few months with some new skill sets and life coaching to help me achieve my 100

Hey CAFC,

You sound in much better form. Fair play to your boss, it sounds like he is being very supportive.:)

starnac

hi all. just checking in.

cafc your boss sounds really supportive. you are really lucky.

did you finish your 100 things list and publish it on the site?

any news on on the dmp?

doodledo_2

Evening chick, hows you doing?

CAFCGirl

my boss has turned LOL

He said some things earlier that were a bit weird, I cant really explain it.
I dont know if I've done the right thing or not, and now its a bit OH MY GOD! But I do need some time to myself i think. I dont know what we'll do money wise.... its going to be really hard..... so basically not sure if I havent mdoade a huge mistake, but then I think about the future and think.... but this is what i need to do to get where i want to be,just maybe wasnt the brightest way of doing it....

any suggestions?

clearmydebts

CAFCGirl wrote: »

my boss has turned LOL

He said some things earlier that were a bit weird, I cant really explain it.
I dont know if I've done the right thing or not, and now its a bit OH MY GOD! But I do need some time to myself i think. I dont know what we'll do money wise.... its going to be really hard..... so basically not sure if I havent mdoade a huge mistake, but then I think about the future and think.... but this is what i need to do to get where i want to be,just maybe wasnt the brightest way of doing it....

any suggestions?

What exactly did your boss say?

I suppose no matter how supportive/nice he is,he is still going to be losing a hard worker so might not be very objective when helping you with planning the future