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Weekly Flylady Thread 4th May 2009

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  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    edited 6 May 2009 at 2:24PM
    [STRIKE]Hoover and mop downstairs
    Sort paperwork (stash it away)
    Dishes
    Worktops[/STRIKE]
    HHI - do I have too? :(
    WM/TD - ongoing
    Tidy kids room - decided kids should help
    [STRIKE]Dust living room
    General tidy of living room[/STRIKE]

    Back hurts now so it's time for a time out. Cuppa tea and a wee something something I think.
  • Sunnygirl_2
    Sunnygirl_2 Posts: 978 Forumite
    Thanks for all your support & advice guys. I know I was wrong to go & collect the duvet unexpectedly, but I hope that once my friend has had a bit of time to think about it, maybe she will will realise that I've really tried to be a good friend. There's got to be a cetain amount of give & take in a friendship

    Exactly Emily...give and take. She has taken an awful lot and although she has a lot on herself at the moment and may not be in a position to give much back right now she needs to realise that you need some time for yourself too. You have been a great friend to her and done so much and I'm sure once she calms down and is a bit less hormonal she'll realise that. Don't feel that its selfish to try to sort your own life out now...your marriage is important and you shouldn't feel selfish trying to sort things out with DH.

    Big Hugs for you. x

    Off to find my list. Will be back.
  • Sunnygirl_2
    Sunnygirl_2 Posts: 978 Forumite
    The list for the week. Using last weeks list as I've done bits and pieces here and there.

    Monday - Kitchen and dining room
    Level One
    Clear and wipe worksurfaces
    Scrub down the front of units and large appliances
    Level Two
    Wipe and replace small appliances
    Clean oven and hob
    Level Three
    Wipe the table and chairs... clean cloth if necessary
    Extras
    1. Run the WM's and DW's through a clean cycle
    2. Clean all the filters and door seals etc
    3. Scrub down the radiators and/or paintwork!
    Terrible Tuesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    strip the bedding and get it washed.. air the duvet
    Mattress vacuumed turned vacuumed other side and redress bed
    Extras
    1. Sort out your own shoes and bags.. can any be rehomed?
    2. Wipe hand rails on stairs
    Wednesday Wonders ~ Cruddy Study & Bathrooms
    Mop/vacuum/sweep floors
    Scrub tiles
    Clean the bath, basins, shower trays and loo's
    Extras
    1. Empty and wash out bins
    2. Wipe all the sofas/chairs inthese room
    Thursdays are Thrilling!! - Living pit, hallway, stairs!!
    Level One
    Vacuum/mop floors & stairs!
    Level Two
    Wash the windows and the front door.. inside and out!
    Vacuum under the furniture you can safely move!
    Clean the sofas
    Level Three
    Declutter the inside of a cupboard or drawer!
    Wipe all the paintwork!
    Dust mantle and polish all the trinkets upon it.. and get all the junk off it!
    Extras
    1. Wipe and water the plants
    2. Clean out the pets
    3. Wash any smelly soft furnishings
    4. Get a pile of filing done!!
    Friday is Funky! - childrens rooms! ~ spare rooms or just attack a neglected room!!
    Strip and wash any bedding that need it
    Extras
    1. Ring someone you've not spoken to in a while..
    2. HHI
    Got a phone call to make before school run so will do that now.
  • Lady-Liberty
    Lady-Liberty Posts: 1,435 Forumite
    Mumof4 huge hugs & good luck at the Dr.........please don't let embarrasment stop you from getting things checked out.........I speak from personal experience.......take a deep breath & go...will be thinking of you xx
    “Cancer has my body but not my spirit, and I’ll continue to make jokes, not so much about cancer, but in spite of it” Irwin Barker
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 18,094 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Castor oil pack done and lunch eaten. I'm shattered, but I guess I'd better wash the stickiness off and get on with my list...

    wrap my brother's birthday present
    Level 1 kitchen & utility room
    move laptop upstairs
    make batches of wedding cake
    one load laundry
    empty another load of stuff from the car into the garage
    Level 2 kitchen & utility room
    check internal vacancies
    update CV and persuade someone to review first draft...
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    Sharon you need to be sensible about your foot or it will take longer to heal (((hugs)))
    igiveup well done on working out your priorities - thats the important bit - hope you get that essay done and then manage to sleep.
    greenbee glad your reflexology helped and good luck with the castor oil pack - ugh Messy!!!!
    holly you should be resting -go have that nap:rotfl:
    MOF77 glad your Mum persuaded you to go to the doc - hope everything works out ok.
    Emily first of all you are an exceptionally GOOD friend - you have supported her from the beginning and I am afraid I too think she is being a little selfish but I am sure its all because of her hormones . lack of sleep, the disappointment about her partner etc and in time she will realise that she too was wrong. The incident over the duvet is nothing to be getting stressed about - I am sure all new Mums worry about their little ones catching colds etc. As the others have said I hope Dh is just feeling left out because of the pregnancy and you can sort things out between you- give yourself a chance to recover emotionally and physically before you do anything more. Welcome to your godson! (((hugs)))

    toots xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 18,094 Forumite
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    greenbee glad your reflexology helped and good luck with the castor oil pack - ugh Messy!!!!

    It wasn't too bad actually toots... although I haven't got round to unwrapping myself yet :D I really MUST get on... I've just realised I'll have to leave here at about 6.45 to meet my brother and have done nothing :o

    MoF77 - (and this goes for the rest of you too!) you should NEVER be too embarrassed to talk to the doctor about something. If you are, then either change your doctor, or be realistic - they'll have heard it before. It's just not worth it. Hope it all goes well.
  • nicki_2
    nicki_2 Posts: 7,321 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic I've been Money Tipped!
    I'm going for my bath now... just got slightly sidetracked through forwarding emails to ex (ones that came to his address at my ISP email and aren't SPAM so he can sort them out his end) and sending him a couple of texts regarding DD and half-term arrangements. Only 2 full weeks left in school as my DD breaks up 22 :eek: More scarily I have my final assignment (T175 course) due on the 28th and another one on the 29 for my new course :eek::eek::eek:

    Living pit, hallway, stairs!!
    Bananejump.gifBananejump.gifBananejump.gif DONE!!!!!Bananejump.gifBananejump.gifBananejump.gif
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Mop dining area[/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    [STRIKE] Job 2[/STRIKE]
    Kitchen and dining room
    Bananejump.gifBananejump.gifBananejump.gif DONE!!!!!Bananejump.gifBananejump.gifBananejump.gif

    Master bedroom and Landing

    Level One
    redress bed
    Level Two
    Wash the windows
    Wipe all the doors and frames upstairs
    Level Three
    Vacuum floors
    Dust and deweb.. inc bed frame!!
    Cruddy Bathrooms

    Level One
    vacuum floor
    Level Two
    Scrub tiles
    Clean the bath, basins, and loo
    Level Three
    Wash windows
    Wash bath mats/shower curtains etc
    Collect all the laundry from upstairs

    Personal
    (includiug extras from this weeks list)
    1. [STRIKE]Set up calender and other apps on my phone. - just need to check that I've shifted everything I need from my old phone to my new one. [/STRIKE]
    2. [STRIKE]Clear out Orange inbox - getting there slowly - 7,000 last time I checked[/STRIKE]
    3. Sort out ringtones for my new phone - don't like any of the ones currently on it :rolleyes::rotfl:
    4. Studying :
      • T175
        • Q 1
        • Q 2
        • Q 3
        • Q 4
        • Q 5
        • TRIPLE CHECK answers.
      • B120
        • Course prep
        • Start Book 1
        • SG - Session 1
    5. FOH (windows, sweep front, wash frontdoor, clean brass)
    6. BOH (Weed, clear out down the side of the house, scrub patio)
    7. Spend half an hour doing something for yourself! .. make yourself a hair appointment or something - waiting on my next rental from Lovefilm - more Bones :drool::drool:
    8. 29 fling boogie...
    9. Look into Brownie Badges for DD to do with her.... ;)
    10. Update Calendar / clear wall off of out of date stuff.
    11. Sort out housing benefit.
    12. Clean the cupboard under the sink.
    13. Run WM through Clean cycle
    14. Clean filters on TD
    15. Binbag / charity bag dance - don't think I've got much else to fling? :D
    16. Get DD to fly in her bedroom ;)
    I've also sorted through my facebook profile ;) Less junk messages for me now I think ;) Right, "schedueld scan" has started so I'm headed for the bath... :wave:
    Creeping back in for accountability after falling off the wagon in 2016.
    Need to get back to old style in modern ways, watching the pennies and getting stuff done!
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    Magnificent Monday ~ Master bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    [STRIKE]strip the bedding and get it washed.. air the duvet[/STRIKE]
    Mattress vacuumed turned vacuumed other side and redress bed
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Deal with the floordrobe[/STRIKE]
    Wash the windows
    Wipe all the doors and frames
    Level Three
    Vacuum floors
    Tidy a cupboard/chest of drawers
    Dust and deweb.. inc bed frame!!
    Extras
    Binbag dance
    Binbag for charity
    Sort out your own shoes and bags.. can any be rehomed?
    [STRIKE] Wipe hand rails on stairs [/STRIKE]No Stairs

    Tuesday twinkles! - Living room, hall
    Level One
    Declutter and vacuum!
    [STRIKE]Spend half an hour doing something for yourself! .[/STRIKE] had a wander round 3/4 charity shops today
    Level Two
    Wipe sofas
    Wash windows
    dust and deweb!.. don't forget furry skirtings!
    Level three
    Wash any soft furnishings that need doing
    [STRIKE]Vacuum right the way up the stairs![/STRIKE] No stairs
    Sort through coats n bags n shoes etc
    Extras
    Sort through a handbag
    Sort through a cupboard or drawer of junk
    29 fling boogie...
    HHI
    Winkly Wednesday - Kitchen and dining room
    Level One
    Clear and wipe worksurfaces
    Scrub down the front of units and large appliances
    Level Two
    Wipe and replace small appliances
    Clean oven and hob
    Wash windows and sills
    Level Three
    Wipe the table and chairs... clean cloth if necessary
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Degunge the fridge!
    Extras
    Thoroughly clean the cupboard under the sink!
    Run the WM's and DW's through a clean cycle
    Clean all the filters and door seals etc
    Wipe the door down.. inside.. and out!!
    My M.A.C.A.W challenge this week is....list toSELL 50 by the end of the week (hex's challenge) 0/50 failed aagain!!!!


    Extras to do
    7 - finish knitting shrug thingy
    38 - knit for a charity!
    watch thread for completed lists
    post to p/lds/
    hex's challenge - list 50 things on by friday
    Organise your toiletries and make-up stash
    Put away any winter coats/boots/clothes
    Descale the shower head.. soaking in vinegar overnight is recommended!
    food inventory and meal plan!!
    collect duffle coat from cleaners
    extras done
    25 books put on amazon


    plus my dailies
    tootsxx

    'money and good health is coming easily to flypeople'


    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    Have got back from work, it went really well. Had a chance to ask lots of questions I've had since I started there in December, so got a lot off my chest. A colleague was helping me with my induction standards, so I learned a lot. Really helpful.

    Am trying to eat every 2 hours today, to see if it makes me feel any better. I've been amazingly energetic! Not bounding around, but seeing as i woke up feeling exhausted, i'm still awake! Hurrah!

    Emily, I really don’t think you’ve done anything wrong. Knowing a little bit about you and your DH’s health problems, it sounds like your friend was relying on you quite a bit, and that’s bound to be very stressful for you and DH. I really don’t see that you have anything to blame yourself for. Your friend can get support from others while you sort out your problems with DH, after all she has lots of friends I should think, while DH only has one wife!
    We are all here to support you and be a shoulder to lean on when ever you want to talk/cry/rant/scream etc!
    PS, there is nothing wrong with going to get your duvet, it is your property after all!

    Mumoffour, hope your GP’s appointment goes well

    Going to wash up during Biggest Loser and do some other stuff if I feel up to it. Not going to have time for my afternoon nap, which could be a big mistake!

    Toots, how are you? Are you resting? Hope things aren't too bad
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
    Sealed pot challenge no.576 Loose change pays your debt challenge #2 no.1 Wannabe flylady
    Weight lost since 9 June 2009: [STRIKE]5.5[/STRIKE] 6 lbs
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