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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 3

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  • Pippilongstocking
    Pippilongstocking Posts: 16,336 Forumite
    edited 13 May 2009 at 11:05PM
    winebox wrote: »
    where are my manners? - welcome Nadine!

    Fay I had problems finding kudzu online at H&B, it doesn't come up under k in the A-Z, I think I searched it in the end (can't remember, just know I had probs but I wasn't buying just looking to see if on offer). What a waste of a sentence, no help at all! Not wasting the effort though!!

    My friend who said she has an alch free house immed told me she had a couple of bottle in :mad: when I got there but FOR ONCE I stuck to my guns, it being only day 2 & I can't keep on giving in at the slightest provocation! But then we talked for an hour about our drinking which made me want one more & more!! She's the only person who knows how much I drink & vice versa; she's interested in this forum I am debating having someone I know well on here; is that selfish? I reckon she'd soon guess which is me, so to speak!! On the other hand I'm not relating anything on here she doesn't know anyway - what would you guys do, please?
    )


    I know what you mean - I am trying to get a chum to join, as well, but we don't live close to each other (I dont live close to anyone!!) if you think you she can do with the support and you wont feel too crowded then maybe its a nice thing to do for her?

    But depends how much you want someone you know hearing about your things?

    SO utterly carp answer from me :)

    Waves to Nadine - welcome - your story sounds very like mine - hello and welcome aboard :)
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    Thank you for the update & lovely warm & welcome post BB :T

    I was worried the world was running out of Kudzu :eek::eek::eek: so I legged it down to my nearest H&B and bought 2 more bottles :rotfl::rotfl:
    Well, I used to worry about the world running out of wine so it makes a nice change :rolleyes:

    Hope everyone is ok tonight xx :grouphug:
  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    Yes Im much better, thanks for caring Budgie. I feel the crunchie helped my well being (does that count for the May challenge:D)

    Now can we have an update soon about how YOU are please .....thank you:D:D

    Glad to hear you are feeling better sweetheart :) and of course the crunchie can count for the May challenge, well if it helps your wellbeing :rotfl:

    I am a bit tired to be honest and I am struggling at work to see the computer after this blinking update we have had, I am not kidding the writing is teeny weeny compared to how it was before :eek:

    I can't change the resolution as it then loses half the content :eek: My boss is trying to sort something out for me, because I really am ready to chuck it through the window :eek:

    After 8 and a half hours looking at it each day I have a big big headache. Sorry to moan but you did ask :rotfl:

    On a brighter note I am hoping for some sun this weekend as my garden is looking quite nice :D and after my 8 month long battle with N power (I won't go into the details hey my post would be a long one). They have let me have a 1k worth of electric as compensation :T (I haven't paid a bill since last September, my account on hold and a lot of mistakes by N Power etc. Though on the bank holiday we just had I did get a call in error from a debt collecting agency :eek: I remained calm as it was in error but even so.........................

    Still I ended up building up a good relationship with the nice lady at N power who after months of stress has sorted it out for me :T I have a thankyou card and some chocs that I am sending her as she has been fab. But the stress was awful, my Ds at one point had to ring up as it was making me ill.

    Oh and though Mr BB is still looking for a job, he has had nearly a £500 tax rebate :T

    Problems taxing my car as I have lost my log book and have had no reminder :eek: I have had to pay £25 for a new log book and when it comes I can then get my tax. Its crazy you can't sorn or tax a car without a log book or reminder. Hey ho should be here by Friday.

    So better go now. bet you glad you asked how I am matey :rotfl: Btw thats the condensed version :rotfl:

    Glad you are better matey and lots of love and thanks for asking ;)
    Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    4th day AF for me today thanks BB.:j

    I just wrote out a long post and lost it so I will do it again tomorrow if I still feel the same way. I'm off to bed now I think.
    HOUSE MOVE FUND £16,000/ £19,000
    DECLUTTERING 2015 439 ITEMS
    “Don’t let your happiness depend on something you may lose.”
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Good evening everyone and well done:T:T
    Everyone is so positive tonight and very busy posting.

    Budgie thank you so much for keeping the scores and for your lovely posts.I really dont know how you find the time......

    I am going on holiday late on Friday but only for one week so will be back on 23rd. ......so still plenty of month left.

    Please keep my AF score going.I wont be tempted.As Winebox says soft drinks cost more so I will be using all my All Inclusive.:D

    Hope you are all where you want to be tonight.
    Take care of you
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,781 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    :o I've been bad tonight.

    I went and did the opposite of everything I keep saying and had a drink when it wasn't a special occasion or a weekend and was quite late in the evening.

    I had a very long (5hrs) and stressful meeting and told myself (when driving home alone) that if it had been with colleagues we'd have gone to the pub or for a meal afterwards. I came home, had something to eat and then had a drink at about quarter to ten. I was a bit restrained, only half a bottle left over from Sunday not my usual all or nothing (desite having my hand on the next bottle ready to open). But no AF today :sad:

    Fortunately plenty of days left to come in on target and not so much to drink that I'll feel hungover tomorrow.

    Good to hear lots of you guys doing great and thanks 40SM for volunteering for June.
  • Morning all:j

    Sorry - been MIA/AWOL.

    BB: 1 AFD please:T Total : 4/10

    TTFN
    X
    :j[DFW Nerd club #1142 Proud to be dealing with my debt:TDMP start date April 2012. Amount £21862:eek:April 2013 = £20414:T April 2014 = £11000 :TApril 2015 = £9500 :T April 2016 = £7200:T
    DECEMBER 2016 - Due to moving house/down-sizing NO MORTGAGE; NO OVERDRAFT; NO DEBTS; NO CREDIT CARDS; NO STORE-CARDS; NO LOANS = FREEDOM:j:j:beer::j:j:T:T
  • sparky0107
    sparky0107 Posts: 3,496 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Morning everyone,
    Another AFD for me, but I've still got the non-alcohol hangover! Another 3 to go for me and I've achieved my target 2/5
    Sparky0107 - Sealed pot challenge member #002. Total for SPC3 £1,030.57 Total For SPC 4 £2247.00 Total for SPC 5 £2574.62 :T Total for SPC 6 £4552.91:T
    :rotfl:LC2 & Jakes-Mum are off their heads :rotfl
    :j DEBT FREE AS OF 20/01/2012 :j
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite

    Dear Lurky well done on clocking up 5 af days :T I guess tomorrow night is a no go though af? But I hope you and the Lovely Esther have a really lovely evening, I am sure you will? ;) Hugs matey and take care, stay lurky :D xxxxxxx

    :cool: :cool: :cool: :D:D

    Clock me up another please Budgie :D 6 now. You're right, tonight won't be AF so I'm probably on the bench until Sunday now. Don't worry if I don't post...... I'll be around

    You ought to be careful, Budgie. You know there's a 5000 character limit on posts.... :rotfl: :rotfl:

    Well done all :T :T

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • 40somethingmum
    40somethingmum Posts: 2,513 Forumite
    Last night was on here and somehow volunteered to be next months scorer.
    DH said " apprentice is on" . I went sat down next to DH who handed me a beer . I opened said beer and started drinking:eek: . After a few sips i said to DH " look what you made me do". DH said " :confused:" . I said " I'm not allowed beer". DH said "give it here then ". Isaid " I've lost my point now so I might as well finish it.:eek: See what happens when you take your eye of the ball . AND i now have a banging headache.:mad:

    In the words of Homer Simpson " DOOOOH"

    Anywhoo So tonight I will be drinking IRN BRUUU :eek:

    Have a good day everyone

    40SM
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