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  • Tamazapan
    Tamazapan Posts: 119 Forumite
    iTS A NICK NAME LOL I DONT ACTUALLY TAKE IT LOL USED TO BE MAZ AND LIKE MARZAPAN ADDED TOGETHER LOL MADE tAMAZAPAN DONT ASK!! I NEED TO LIVE CLEALY
    :kisses2:
    to find a rainbow you must go through the rain
    to find true love you must go through the pain
  • 1echidna
    1echidna Posts: 23,086 Forumite
    Tamazapan wrote: »
    iTS A NICK NAME LOL I DONT ACTUALLY TAKE IT LOL USED TO BE MAZ AND LIKE MARZAPAN ADDED TOGETHER LOL MADE tAMAZAPAN DONT ASK!! I NEED TO LIVE CLEALY

    Sounds like its me who needs to live :rotfl:
  • Tamazapan
    Tamazapan Posts: 119 Forumite
    LOL. You only live once so go out there and od the things you want to do.!!!
    :kisses2:
    to find a rainbow you must go through the rain
    to find true love you must go through the pain
  • Alex_LS
    Alex_LS Posts: 197 Forumite
    Ephemera wrote: »
    Are you still paying the mortgage? If so then you still have a right of access to the property...

    Surely there's caveats to that. You don't have unrestricted access if your property's occupied by tenants or squatters, for instance?
  • Snooze
    Snooze Posts: 2,041 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Tamazapan_(in_reply_to_neas) wrote: »
    Yeah i know hence y im pushing for it to be done ASAP and he wants it sorted as knows it stressing me!! And how old are you?? and male ohr female

    :D:D

    Rob
  • AMILLIONDOLLARS
    AMILLIONDOLLARS Posts: 2,299 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Tamazapan wrote: »
    Sadley yes!!!! After 7 years together he bats for the other team so you can imagine my confidance is crap right now!!


    I was only joking:eek:, sorry about that!!

    AMD
    Debt Free!!!
  • mrluke
    mrluke Posts: 247 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    edited 1 May 2009 at 3:25PM
    Castleman wrote: »
    Outside?!!

    sorry 2 hear about the situation , but that made me spit out my drink with laughter

    any way ,, dont worry about him , atleast u have found out now at 22 ! imagine if he stayed with you till in your 30's !!! that wld suck

    regarding the mortgage id suggest taking him up on the offer if its in negative equity , get out now .. and dont speak 2 him again simple as ;)
  • Head-Out-Of-Sand
    Head-Out-Of-Sand Posts: 763 Forumite
    Alex_LS wrote: »
    Surely there's caveats to that. You don't have unrestricted access if your property's occupied by tenants or squatters, for instance?

    I think you're right about tennants/squatters, but in this instance I doubt that would apply - the house is jointly owned and one of the owners has arbitrarily denied access to one of the other owners without any kind of agreement/arrangement in place, I seriously doubt he could claim to be in the right in this instance. (I am definitely no expert though!!)
  • Dithering_Dad
    Dithering_Dad Posts: 4,554 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Interesting thread, and an excellent post from neas. Nothing more to add to what he's already put except to congratulate you on getting away from this situation relatively scot-free.

    However, make sure you get everything signed and then checked by a solicitor. Make sure you get confirmation from the mortgage lender that you are no longer liable for the debt and no longer on the mortgage.

    Then laugh your a rse off that you've just walked away from a mountain of debt and left your ex well and truly in it :D

    Please resist the urge to gloat about leaving him 'well and truly in it' until you have confirmed that you are off the mortgage!!!

    p.s. I'm male and in my late 30s. ;)
    Mortgage Free in 3 Years (Apr 2007 / Currently / Δ Difference)
    [strike]● Interest Only Pt: £36,924.12 / £ - - - - 1.00 / Δ £36,923.12[/strike] - Paid off! Yay!! :)
    ● Home Extension: £48,468.07 / £44,435.42 / Δ £4032.65
    ● Repayment Part: £64,331.11 / £59,877.15 / Δ £4453.96
    Total Mortgage Debt: £149,723.30 / £104,313.57 / Δ £45,409.73
  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Bake Off Boss!
    Any progression on getting the house sorted out?
    Debt January 1st 2018 £96,999.81
    Debt September 20th 2022 £2991.68- 96.92% paid off
    Met NIM 23/06/2008
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