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lil_miss_06

searching_me wrote: »

((hugs)) mrs m dont know what to say x

I was just about to say the same,,,thats is a difficult situation to comment on,jus wanna give you a big squidgy hug too xx

mustbemad

Mrs Moc, so sorry you have this additional worry on top of everything else :sad: I hope you manage to get things sorted out soon x

mbm x

money_maker_3

morning everyone !!

MrsM, can you ask the kids what he was like when you are in hospital? Chances are that he wasnt drinking when you were in as he had no choice but to deal with eerything. But now you are home, the whole enormity of the situation might have hit him harder that you think. I was here the whole way though when you were first talking about this, so I know it is a really big deal. Can you get an outsider to talk to him for you, stress is the one thing you really need to avoid if you dont want to go back into hospital too soon.

((hugs)) and you know we are all here for you when ever you need to let off some steam. xx

Nicki

mountainlioness wrote: »

Oh dear, maybe I'll be giving birth to the next village idiot!

I shouldn't worry. I never had a queasy moment with DS1, and he is the next Einstein! Top of his class in all subjects, and baffles me with some of the questions he asks on a whole range of subjects.

With DD1 I was so sick, that I used to lie exhausted on the bathroom floor, as I didn't have the energy to get back to bed, and knew I was going to be repeatedly vomit for hours. She's a honey in lots of ways, but diagnosed with severe learning difficulties (not related to the morning sickness or pregnancy btw!)

This time round I'm somewhere between these two happy states, so maybe the next one is middle of the road. Or maybe the link isn't so reliable

MrsTinks

Mrs Moc - is there anyone else you can leave the kids with if/when you go back into hospital?
My stepfather is an alcoholic so I can kind of appreciate where you are coming from... It's not nice and yes they will lie about a lot of things especially alcohol... Have you thought about getting him to speak to GP? There is a medication that they can take that makes them sick as a dog if they touch alcohol but they have to take it every day. In Denmark they can go to the surgery to take the med daily and have a signature to say they've taken it etc. Don't know about the UK...


As for incubating a little einstein... well - mum had really bad MS with both me and my brother and we're alledgedly of decent IQ levels So there might be something in it... I can hope!

DH's cheque from Egg has arrived so I'm going to go and pay that in in a sec £2841 woohooo!! He's asked me what I want for our first anniversary on saturday and I'm not allowed to say shed for the allotment LOL Have no idea what I want to be honest... I don't need anything as such and he wants me to pick something just for me... not exactly easy!

money_maker_3

Well I have had quite a productive morning !! Yeah me !!:)
I gor up at 7.30, tidied the kitchen, got Jasmine ready for school, took her down adn went down the town for 9am. Got 2 black bin liners of old clothes left intot he charity shop, got new clothes pegs and tupperware boxes from Argos and treated myself to marks and sparks butter scone and choc muffin which I have just finished with a nice cup of tea !!

Rest of the day is washing and ironing (shiver goes down my spine when I say that word)

Hope everyones bad back and aches and pains disappear soon

Hugs to everyone xx

money_maker_3

MrsTine wrote: »

DH's cheque from Egg has arrived so I'm going to go and pay that in in a sec £2841 woohooo!! He's asked me what I want for our first anniversary on saturday and I'm not allowed to say shed for the allotment LOL Have no idea what I want to be honest... I don't need anything as such and he wants me to pick something just for me... not exactly easy!

Can you not get a voucher for a spa day for after bubs is here ??

Sami_Bee

Glam - now u know why we're "having a surprise"

MrsM - I'm not sure what you can do but I have my fingers crossed it was a small slip and he didn't do anything silly like drive after having it :undecided Is there no-one like ur mum around who can keep an eye on things?

oh and the genius sickness thing; My mum's work friend was hospitalised in both her her pregs and lovely as her kids are they are both comparable to 2 short planks :rotfl:

Glamazon

((hugs)) Mrs Moc not sure what to say but wanted to give you a hug

MM - notice you didn't miss me last night?!!!

Right, am hoping this big slab of choc swiss roll will make me feel better!

money_maker_3

See I had no MS with Jasmine and she is top of her class in reading and maths (P2), but she has very little common sense !!! Just like her mum